Hi new to this forum. A also recently back in the dating game. I tend to be attracted to ENFJ ladies but don't know how compatible we would be long term. I haven't seen much in relation to this pairing and would like some insight.
It could work, but I see a major problem, and is the precise reason why I wouldn't get in a romantic relationship with an ENFJ.
INFJ's like to recluse, and turn inward, where as ENFJ's to the reverse of this. If the two parties are upset, the ENFJ will likely push to talk, and become very emotionally needy, which is not what they INFJ would want at the moment. While both types need feedback to feel ok, the approach it in different ways, and as such it can lead to conflict.
My main problem with my ENFJ friend is that I can focus very exclusively on him without a problem, but he has a tendency to need to focus on many different people or events at once. That's more of a problem than the INFJ reclusiveness, I think.
Hi new to this forum. A also recently back in the dating game. I tend to be attracted to ENFJ ladies but don't know how compatible we would be long term. I haven't seen much in relation to this pairing and would like some insight.
Good luck with that.