Hello fellow INFJs!
I’m sure that most of the INFJs here have struggled or are struggling with their broken heart, just like myself. Since we all know how fucking debilitating a break-up can be for an INFJ and how precious the feeling is to finally be able to let go of our past lovers, I thought we could share our best advices to those who are wandering in the dark valley of reasoning, idolization and self-undoing.
These are my own reminders.
1. Cut all the cords, including ghosting.
2. Abandon all hope.
3. Stop visioning how it was, how it could have be and how it might be.
4. Ask yourself, was I dedicated into the relationship as if it would have been the one for the rest of my life, even with the faults?
5. Since you never do things half-heartedly, why would you ever be content with someone who did not share the same passion, the same willingness to adapt and the same eagerness to learn to know what truly makes you happy?
6. Be brutal honest to yourself and loyal to your intuition, even though it might feel cold as it cuts through your love for daydreaming and idealization.
7. You will meet many possible partners but make sure that the next one is truly worthy of your love and dedication.
You are a precious and wonderous being. Don’t waste yourself for the unworthy!
<3 <3 <3
I’m sure that most of the INFJs here have struggled or are struggling with their broken heart, just like myself. Since we all know how fucking debilitating a break-up can be for an INFJ and how precious the feeling is to finally be able to let go of our past lovers, I thought we could share our best advices to those who are wandering in the dark valley of reasoning, idolization and self-undoing.
These are my own reminders.
1. Cut all the cords, including ghosting.
2. Abandon all hope.
3. Stop visioning how it was, how it could have be and how it might be.
4. Ask yourself, was I dedicated into the relationship as if it would have been the one for the rest of my life, even with the faults?
5. Since you never do things half-heartedly, why would you ever be content with someone who did not share the same passion, the same willingness to adapt and the same eagerness to learn to know what truly makes you happy?
6. Be brutal honest to yourself and loyal to your intuition, even though it might feel cold as it cuts through your love for daydreaming and idealization.
7. You will meet many possible partners but make sure that the next one is truly worthy of your love and dedication.
You are a precious and wonderous being. Don’t waste yourself for the unworthy!
<3 <3 <3