If I get an asshole or bitchy "vibe", sometimes I will suspect someone of being an INFP. Especially if they are trying to "prove" shit to me.
Define "asshole".
Define "bitchy".
Define "prove shit".
If I get an asshole or bitchy "vibe", sometimes I will suspect someone of being an INFP. Especially if they are trying to "prove" shit to me.
If I get an asshole or bitchy "vibe", sometimes I will suspect someone of being an INFP. Especially if they are trying to "prove" shit to me.
@ Kaipus: I think crying in front of friends all depends on how close a friend they are. If you're just friendly acquaintances then crying in front of them would probably have been a bit of a "too much-too soon" situation.
If you're really close though then I think it's fine to cry in front of them, depending on the friend they might even appreciate the emotional honesty (plus helping friends feel better is always a great feeling).
Bear in mind though that some people are better at and more comfortable with emotional displays than others.
And that's why you never play Scrabble with an INFP. :lol:
I've not met a single INFP who I'd consider having a "bitchy" or "asshole" vibe. Maybe it's just a type incompatiblity thing.If I get an asshole or bitchy "vibe", sometimes I will suspect someone of being an INFP. Especially if they are trying to "prove" shit to me.
No, I wasn't offended. I just wasn't clear on what you were trying to say.yes I can see how the way I typed it inicially caused you to think that was what I meant.
I also said that he was the only INFP that I had to go by and others might be quite different... I was just trying to acknowledge that some of the behaviors were more of an INFP nature such as being idealistic and sensitive while recieving messages from his external environment that were not necessarily the case. I have been under the impression that some INFP's give off an anxious energy and I could pick up on this as there was almost a panicky tone to his voice. However, I thought he had lovely qualities as well. I found him to be very kind and sensitive, interested in me and in my day, and he cared about how I was feeling about things too. My thoughts on him were not completely negative, and I am sorry if I portrayed aspects an INFP in a souly negative light. I can see that I only detailed negative characteristics that interperated of him and that I didn't include the positives. I will remember in future to include them as well should I ever discuss him again and hopefully I didn't offend you
Define "asshole".
Define "bitchy".
Define "prove shit".
Your post was a good example.
lol really? Haha, if you think someone asking for clarification is "bitchy" then it's no wonder you're having so much trouble with these "INFPs" of yours.
Maybe it's a difference in meaning between the UK and the Sates, but I'd consider "bitchy" to mean someone who gossips about people behind their back, or plays office politics and stuff like that.
I can honestly say I have never encountered a single INFP either IRL or on the net who engages in that kind of behaviour, in my experience it's a complete anathema to us (primary Fi and all that).
Well since I was considering the possibility of me being an INFP I googled for some comparisons between INFJs and INFPs and found a site where somebody (who happens to be INFJ I think) has put together a few documents on the subject. The site takes a bit of sifting through but I found it pretty useful.
I think this is the page I started on.
http://www.infjorinfp.com/docs/AcceptOrOrganize.htm