There is already a recent thread on twin flames by
@JustPhil here:
https://www.infjs.com/threads/twin-flames-has-anyone-met-theirs.36728/
How I am understanding this is that you just met this person and do not really know her or have a relationship w/ her. You say she may already be in a committed relationship. You don't know much personal information about he
You make some very valid points! There is also the I have two twin flames.
I will address some of your observatoons.
Not ALL ignore the marriage part a few do honor that but yes, it tends to be ignored.
For real connections it is not a choice. The universe does its thing and life is turned upside down.
A good number of people pursue the lust part and ignore the lesson part. Few want to ffg o that kind of work, it is difficult. There is also very little real support to try and figure the situation out a lot of times because of the fidelity issues.
I certainly take your point about not being able to love someone you don't know however, this is indeed different.
I do apologize for not getting this formatted correctly .
Larry
This is why I am skeptical of the Twin Flame concept.
– Infatuation/lust is not a deep connection.
– Why do so many people who claim a person is their "twin flame" disrespect the fact that the other person is in a committed relationship?
– Why do people so often choose twin flames whom they know so little about?
– Why are people so ashamed of admitted lust and the feeling of potential deep connection for what they are?
– Unlike a Soul Mate, a Twin Flame is someone who helps you grow. The relationship may not be long-lasting. So, in this case, anyone can label anyone a "twin flame". Seems like projecting.
– You can't love or understand someone you don't know.