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    What does the avatar above you make you want to do?

    Paint my nails black.
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    IMO women have some very very big issues

    From what we can see at first glance it definitely doesn't look like a fight for her life, but look closer. As she's walking across the street and onto the sidewalk, she walks backwards the majority of the distance, suggesting she either suspect's she's in danger or is at least engaged in a...
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    INFJ or INFP Test

    Wow, 82% INFJ - 18% INFP. It was hard to choose between a lot of these answers, but these two really hit the nail on the head. "Other people seem to be cut out for a 9-5 corporate zombie routine, and it sometimes makes me feel like a space alien that I just don't fit in." "The kind of people...
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    Why are so many INFPs delued that they are INFJs?

    He is an INFP, but the worst kind you can imagine. At the time we were last speaking he was very selfish, self-absorbed, lazy, disrespectful, ungrateful, and his moral code was very broken. All he could think of and focus on were his own feelings, himself. I've never had that kind of...
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    Why are so many INFPs delued that they are INFJs?

    Deciding whether or not to put my heart into something is definitely a dilemma I do face. Once I decide to do something, I am typically very determined and very focused. There are times in reaching my goal that I will be mentally exhausted or feel discouraged, where I might not be exactly "on...
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    Why are so many INFPs delued that they are INFJs?

    I can definitely see that being indicative of Ni-Se too actually. I didn't do the best job of explaining my point. As we've said the INFP struggles with decisiveness. There is a period of initial desire for perfection, an aware abandonment of the desire when it's time to take action/shortly...
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    Why are so many INFPs delued that they are INFJs?

    Has anyone else noticed that INFP's have almost a kind of, I don't know... unfulfilled perfectionism? I can't think of just how to describe it. They have this (occasional) desire to be perfect and good, but seem to get easily distracted or just never really follow through with their ambitions...
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    Nah, I just realized it's actually the exact same pink as my google chrome browser...

    Nah, I just realized it's actually the exact same pink as my google chrome browser...
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    Oh my goodness. I wasn't expecting so much pink and cuteness on your page :love:

    Oh my goodness. I wasn't expecting so much pink and cuteness on your page :love:
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    Why don't women make the first move?

    It is hard to understand because I think on a case by case basis. I just don't see how you can say a woman is still physically weak if she can physically over power most men. And a man who can't even, say, push a wheel barrow is strong. True, she is not the typical woman and he is not the...
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    Why don't women make the first move?

    I see how what you're saying here about the lion and the wolf is true to a degree. There is an obvious natural advantage. The average lion will have the advantage over the average wolf, but what about those that are not average? You said yourself that the woman depicted is stronger than some...
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    INFJs and Jealousy?

    I would not say I'm a jealous person, though I could see why INFJ's may be prone to jealousy. Perfectionistic nature + not always being very outgoing = feeling jealous and inadequate In a situation where others might feel jealous, I am usually indifferent, or maybe sad. If a person who I had...
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    ESTJ: the ideal of masculinity?

    So, an ESTJ female is not someone you would want as a friend, or to be around in general, or is it more that she is not attractive as a potential partner? Or both? I can understand either. It's interesting to me personally because my mom is an ESTJ and my dad is an INFJ... Let's just say their...
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    siblings and their types

    For those of you who have siblings, what are their types? If you don't have a sibling or were to have another, what type would you want them to be? Or, if you could magically change your sibling's type, what would you change his type to and why? I have a younger brother who is an INFP. We did...
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    ESTJ: the ideal of masculinity?

    Interestingly enough, my mother is also a tiny Asian ESTJ and this describes her very well. There is no offense meant in saying this, but could it be that you feel emasculated in the presence of an ESTJ female? If another man is more masculine than you, then it is acceptable, but not a female...