Recent content by Saram

dream echo, you have wonderful insight.

I'm in the habit of wanting to savour the entire experience. I throw myself in whole heartedly, thus set myself up. But I think, because I have been emotionally injured to the point where, I was absolutely sure the pain was going to kill me, and that was a daily occurance, for years... yet, I...

The five steps of assertiveness. 1) tell her what the problem is 2) tell her how it makes you feel 3) tell her how you would like it to be 4) tell her the consequences if she does not comply 5) follow throw I am not proud to admit, that when my sister died, my behaviour was...let's just...

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I like this post. I went into a 'retraction' for several years. Coming up for air sometimes. My health started to fail with it, so I see it almost a sort of sickness. Health scares is what shook me out of it. I can't retract anymore at home. My husband won't let me. When he sees it...

I'm reluctant to socialize sometimes because, as I'm sure many, if not most of you are the same, being infj, am really good at reading body language. Often when I read emotions that that person thought was private, I feel like I've just violated them. Like I've cheated somehow. Especially if...

Good name. I like it.

ohhhh nice sali. Big smile over here.

I have a friend who had breast cancer. She needed 18 rounds of chemo (that's quite a lot). I was at her place for tea, and within a 15 minute period, she Vim'd her kitchen sink twice, then febreezed the room. Then she heated something in the microwave with saran wrap on top. I felt sick and...

It happened to me yesterday on this forum. He soured the milk (the forum) for me a touch for a few minutes. Its not a fair reflection of others here, and yet, temporarily I looked down on the forum, the vessel, for the unwarented animosity. But I chilled out, and sent him a private message...

Assertiveness is a skill. Not a quality, so there's hope there. To be shy, I think might be a blanket term. To be infj is to be introverted. No shame in that. To do yourself the diservice of blanketing your introversion as the negative 'shy', is a practice that should be discouraged when...

Thankyou for the warm welcomes.

Geez, I should have read your thread before I started mine. I've had it where the link is so strong, that I felt like I was ripped in half when apart. I just couldn't function. It took intense introversion, to be able to try to make sense of the absolute need. The feeling was reciprocal too...