Recent content by SailorNicki

Thank you, I really hope so too. If he doesn't respond the hardest part is just trying to sit tight and be patient, hoping he'll realize, if he ever realizes, but if the emotions he had were as intense as they said, and our lives as routine as they were, he should eventually come back around...

Email was sent, but to no surprise he hasn't responded. Not sure he needs time to think about a response or if he just needs the time period.

He tells me I am the one he can see super long term, the one that he can settle down with. Except he would tell me the kind of relationship he has with me is one he is not ready for. I'm the first woman that made him even think about getting married, there are other reasons why a man can tell...

I'm in the process of writing it right now, I know I will need help with some wording or how to say things, I will send you what I have so far though, I honestly really appreciate it

Well, its ironic because we had discussed about breaking up before, it was about him not being sure about commitment, which was brought up in this actual breakup. He had always said he would want me in his life, he asked if we would still be friends if things did not happen to work out right...

I don't question or doubt that the love he feels for me is real. He says he wants to be with me but he thinks deep down now is not the time. He always said he would try the relationship but he thought that right now was never the time...but I was still willing, wanting to try. He did say: I...

Well, we had a brief conversation yesterday and one of the last things I asked him was "Why are you so afraid to feel something..." and you're right, he told me. After his first breakup, his first love, mind you was back when he was like 18-21, he said he changed. He became where he was more...

Its been awhile, but here's an update: The update I was going to make originally was a very positive one. My relationship was going in the right direction, we had sweet Valentines day plans and my INTJ was learning to feel. Through the month I had notice him changing, he was becoming much...

Although I really enjoy when my boyfriend shows me physically that he's attracted to me, I admire him looking at me the most. Sometimes he'll verbally say something after just laying side by side looking into one another eyes.

Nixie - I really appreciate your response, it gives me something to think about especially how I try to act around him. I think that will be the most telling thing about our relationship, teaching each other how we express ourselves in different situations. The hardest part for me is to not...

I had a response and I lost it. sigh. So, here's at typing it all out again... In all honesty, right now, I really am content with how things are between us. I still consider this to be a new relationship and still in the stages of getting to know each other and just enjoying being with each...

Thank you for those who have responded so far! I might add that while his mind was super made up (he tells me once his mind is set it is almost impossible to change it) ~ I know this is the logical thinking side of INTJs. However, it appears I'm able to change it. Not just in this instance...

Greetings! So, I stumbled across this forum when I was trying to read more on what's stated ^^ I'm an INFJ female who has been dating an INTJ male for several months now. Basically, we connected right away, we exchanged written messages for about a month before we actually went on our...