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Recent content by Mkenya

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    Is Atheism a belief?

    Atheism isn't a belief...it's a lack of belief. Theism: The belief in a deity. A/theism: Not theism. A belief is something that you hold true. Does me not holding the existence of deity as true equate to me holding the the non existence of a deity as true? Does not x equal y? Does not yes...
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    How do I deal with liking everyone?

    I think that's why I pull away. I know I can easily get hurt so I do it to protect myself. How did you deal with it? Did you actively try to overcome this or did it just happen naturally? Do you think it can happen "non-naturally"? oh and thanks.
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    How do I deal with liking everyone?

    I thought it was Fe because to me "like" and "what them to be happy" is more or less the same thing. There is a good chance that this isn't Fe though..I don't know. I've bolded what I think rings true for me. I have some questions.. 1) Is infatuation bad? Or is it a necessary stepping...
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    How do I deal with liking everyone?

    Yes..they change. But never negatively. I'll just like them "differently"...but the level of intensity is still the same.
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    How do I deal with liking everyone?

    I think this is Fe. I tend to like everyone...or at least most people I meet. What's the problem with that? Well, they don't always (in fact, rarely) like me back as intensely. I mean they might "like" me..but I just get the feeling that I care for them on such a deeper level that the...
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    If a tree falls in the forest . . .

    The answer is up to you. I think it does. I could be wrong. If a tree falls in a forest and you are there to hear it, does it make a sound?
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    What are bad reasons for ending a marriage?

    This probably highlights a difference between intps and other types... I was thinking the op wanted "objective" bad reasons to end a relationships. That is, reasons that in all circumstances could be deemed "bad" regardless of other factors involved...or reasons in which you couldn't think of a...
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    Help an intp feel?

    But I didn't. I provided cliffs. Which means I might have a heart. Which means there is hope?
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    Similar Partners

    How similar to yourself would your ideal partner be? There are definitely some things that I would prefer if we agreed upon..but honestly, I don't have an "ideal partner" concept (purposefully, mind you) so I don't know how much we would be and wouldn't be alike. What aspects of your...
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    What are bad reasons for ending a marriage?

    imo, there are no real "bad reasons" to end a marriage/friendship. Just reasons and people who deem those reasons good or bad.
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    Help an intp feel?

    I think I want to know how to use Fe in a more positive way. I think I already use it, but in unhealthy ways. I've been trying (for the last week or so) to consciously allow Fe to do what it wants to do. I guess in the past I've always suppressed it. I have thoughts like "I should say thank...