Edith

Of course we are

No I'll just say it's for my friend's doggie ;p

I'll have him in my thoughts , I'll tell my mother and she'll pray for him. I'm not really into the whole God thing but she is and it's nice I think.

I'm pretty good,

Has douglas gone through his surgery yet?

Hey, how are you today?

I certainly could talk to him, but the internet speed is a bit better at the moment so I'm loading it now. I might talk to him anyway depending on what it says.

And thanks a lot!

Quick question, do you know if these were ever electronically published? I'm going to look through some resources to see if I can't find something in my library's catalog.

well i took a look and as far as i can tell it's not available to me as it's not really a major journal, sorry :/

*hugs* thank you!

Hello, Elo...and thanks

How is Douglas feeling?

It's a dialogue; whining/dialogue, tomato/tomatoe? The last thing one should do with a dialogue is stifle it and the purpose of dialogue itself is to promote reconciliation and therefore the attitudes and arguments of individuals will change. If the dialogue is removed there is a good chance that either party will simply refuse to re-enter any sort of dialogue in the future because they will view their viewpoint as fixed and the dialogue itself as a broken system not to be encouraged.

I'm incapable of mediation, but I think every opinion is an important part of representing what did happen, what should have happened and how to fix it.

Addendum: I'm also not in the business of telling other people what they should or should not be serious about because of my selective definition or by even informing them what I think they should or should not be serious about. It's a serious flaw in perspective to assume that others holds the same axioms as the self and people make their home and set their boundaries based upon themselves and their own comfort levels, not upon the demands of others.

I won't raise that concept again, because to put it quite simply; it is damaging in itself to present that viewpoint because it closes itself out by being stated.

It's just mental gymnastics; I'm happy to deal with those as they are. But when people claim I can't say things based upon what they have said its contradictory. It's purposeless to claim that there was no discussion of the 'staffs opinions' when he did in the post referenced and the staff have already said 'you are right to be angry'. If people are right to be angry then an error has been made.

It's pretty ignorant to ignore that and demand it becomes a non issue to others, when it clearly is not by their definition.

This is the best I can do for you unfortunately;



:hug:

Dougie will be in my thoughts tonight.

I know, it's a hard thing to watch him have to go through I'm sure . but at least you know afterwards everything will be alright. I know that you were worried about maybe losing him for awhile.

, I'm so sorry to hear that. But hopefully that means that there will be no problems from all of this leg stuff in the future.

oooooh ok, I gotcha

I feel obligated to point out that your usertitle has a typo :tongue1:.

Thank you, really.

Can I call you elowen melon ins at least? It's a cool name!! Wait is it? No, it's not.. I like your boobs!! Crap. Why do our conversations go like this? Is it you or me? Ya ya it's me. [: