Oh, that is very nice of you to say!! I like the idea I would be experienced as comforting and warm very much. Thank you!
I suppose there is as much truth to what you had to say about me as there would be about many infjs. On whole though, I actually think it's probably more true of others here than it is about me. I actually often feel frustratingly bewildered about what makes people work and how best to engage. Maybe because I have some level of skill at understanding and engagement, I feel more at a loss when I don't understand, but well, not understanding is my stronger experience than understanding. Funny, as I thought about the idea of seeing strings that others didn't see but keeping quiet, I laughed. I realized I'm like a little child without pretense. If I saw strings, I'd be like, "Look! Strings!" LOL
I wonder, how close to your description do you think you might come? Sometimes we can be blinded to our direct experience, but we see echoes of our image reflected back to us through someone else.