In addition to the first thing I mentioned, in the same thread he posted:
"I also married and ESTJ and I love the fact that I can leave the "mundane" things in our lives to her and she actually enjoys them. Filing taxes, organizing a closet... jeez! I'll admit that I sometimes have to wonder how a sane person can find satisfaction in that, but hey... who am I to complain?"
And you posted: "From the other side (Probable ESTJ) I can say that I married an INFJ, and at least one of my other interests is an INFJ"
Not that this necessarily clues one in, but it's sort of like the dots have been connected, and I don't think most anyone realized. Mostly I think the general consensus was just "Omg! Awesome!"
: ) We are a strange bunch...