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Which Personality Type is Your Love Match?

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Which Personality Type is Your Love Match?

https://www.truity.com/test/which-personality-type-your-love-match

Love has no specific pattern but may better than horoscope.

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I love ISFPs so much but I'll take this test anyway!

Your Match is an INFJ
Becoming romantically involved with an INFJ means being wrapped in a protective cocoon of love. INFJs lead with their hearts and never want their partners to feel neglected or unappreciated, and they will seldom let a day pass without expressing their devotion and affection. They are perfectionists who want to build fantastic meaningful relationships, and they never stop trying to be more caring, attentive and involved in their companions’ lives. INFJs can be a bit intense when discussing relationship issues, but that comes from their fierce determination to create a loving union that will prosper for a lifetime.

INFJs have high expectations for themselves and others and are prone to feeling let down or disappointed. But they hate arguments and prefer to adjust their expectations rather than give their significant others a hard time. They are also great listeners and encourage the people they love to open up and share their feelings in order to promote greater understanding and a deeper romantic connection. Gentleness and warmth is the default position for INFJs in love, and while they may have some moments of doubt, they never stay upset with their companions for long.

The Downsides
In general, the INFJ aversion to conflict is a good thing. But sometimes in human relations there are important issues that must be hashed out, and INFJs are so anxious to sweep everything under the rug that they may prevent critical discussions from taking place. They have a difficult time seeing the benefits of frank, honest conversation if things have a chance of becoming heated, fearing such interactions will sabotage their goal of creating a perfect, stress-free relationship.

How to Meet Your INFJ Mate
INFJ is the rarest type in the population, so you've got your work cut out for you. You're unlikely to meet an INFJ by chance, but you can increase your odds by seeking them out in their natural habitat.

INFJs are often idealistic, and you may encounter them by volunteering for local nonprofit organizations, especially charities that serve underprivileged groups and those devoted to supporting the arts. INFJ is a particularly literary type, and may be found in libraries, bookstores, or book discussion groups.

In the professional world, INFJs are often involved in health care, education, and the arts. In school, they typically study the humanities or social sciences.

And if all else fails, try posting in the discussion area of this site. Although INFJs are rare in the general population, they tend to frequent websites about personality type.
 
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Your Match is an ENFP
Few other personality types bring as much energy and enthusiasm to relationship building as ENFPs. Positive affirmations and expressions of love are their specialties, and they will delight romantic companions with their willingness and ability to speak openly and eloquently about their deepest emotions and feelings. ENFPs bring a lot of assets to the table that can promote healthy, lasting relationships, including creativity, idealism, flexibility, emotional sensitivity, an optimistic outlook and highly developed motivational skills. When ENFPs see the possibility of a love connection, they become like men and women on a mission, determined to construct the most rewarding relationships possible.

ENFPs are profusely communicative and affectionate with their partners, believing a romantic relationship will only thrive if each person showers the other with adoration and affection on a regular basis. It might seem like they’re overdoing it at times, but ENFPs believe love must be nurtured and cared for if it is to remain vital and alive. And for the most part they are absolutely right!

The Downsides
Sometimes ENFPs can overwhelm their partners with their eagerness to know everything and to be involved in every aspect of their lives. In theory, ENFPs are happy to give their loved ones some space, but on occasion their hands-on approach to relationship building and maintenance can be too much for even the most patient person to handle. Obviously ENFPs mean well, but every once in a while they can overwhelm even the most appreciative mates with an abundance of caring and concern.

Lol. My first boyfriend was that type and it was nothing like this.
 
Your Match is an INFJ
Becoming romantically involved with an INFJ means being wrapped in a protective cocoon of love. INFJs lead with their hearts and never want their partners to feel neglected or unappreciated, and they will seldom let a day pass without expressing their devotion and affection. They are perfectionists who want to build fantastic meaningful relationships, and they never stop trying to be more caring, attentive and involved in their companions’ lives. INFJs can be a bit intense when discussing relationship issues, but that comes from their fierce determination to create a loving union that will prosper for a lifetime.

INFJs have high expectations for themselves and others and are prone to feeling let down or disappointed. But they hate arguments and prefer to adjust their expectations rather than give their significant others a hard time. They are also great listeners and encourage the people they love to open up and share their feelings in order to promote greater understanding and a deeper romantic connection. Gentleness and warmth is the default position for INFJs in love, and while they may have some moments of doubt, they never stay upset with their companions for long.

The Downsides
In general, the INFJ aversion to conflict is a good thing. But sometimes in human relations there are important issues that must be hashed out, and INFJs are so anxious to sweep everything under the rug that they may prevent critical discussions from taking place. They have a difficult time seeing the benefits of frank, honest conversation if things have a chance of becoming heated, fearing such interactions will sabotage their goal of creating a perfect, stress-free relationship.

How to Meet Your INFJ Mate
INFJ is the rarest type in the population, so you've got your work cut out for you. You're unlikely to meet an INFJ by chance, but you can increase your odds by seeking them out in their natural habitat.

INFJs are often idealistic, and you may encounter them by volunteering for local nonprofit organizations, especially charities that serve underprivileged groups and those devoted to supporting the arts. INFJ is a particularly literary type, and may be found in libraries, bookstores, or book discussion groups.

In the professional world, INFJs are often involved in health care, education, and the arts. In school, they typically study the humanities or social sciences.

And if all else fails, try posting in the discussion area of this site. Although INFJs are rare in the general population, they tend to frequent websites about personality type.
 
Your Match is an ENFP
Few other personality types bring as much energy and enthusiasm to relationship building as ENFPs. Positive affirmations and expressions of love are their specialties, and they will delight romantic companions with their willingness and ability to speak openly and eloquently about their deepest emotions and feelings. ENFPs bring a lot of assets to the table that can promote healthy, lasting relationships, including creativity, idealism, flexibility, emotional sensitivity, an optimistic outlook and highly developed motivational skills. When ENFPs see the possibility of a love connection, they become like men and women on a mission, determined to construct the most rewarding relationships possible.

ENFPs are profusely communicative and affectionate with their partners, believing a romantic relationship will only thrive if each person showers the other with adoration and affection on a regular basis. It might seem like they’re overdoing it at times, but ENFPs believe love must be nurtured and cared for if it is to remain vital and alive. And for the most part they are absolutely right!

The Downsides
Sometimes ENFPs can overwhelm their partners with their eagerness to know everything and to be involved in every aspect of their lives. In theory, ENFPs are happy to give their loved ones some space, but on occasion their hands-on approach to relationship building and maintenance can be too much for even the most patient person to handle. Obviously ENFPs mean well, but every once in a while they can overwhelm even the most appreciative mates with an abundance of caring and concern.

Sure, makes sense.
 
Your Match is an INFJ
Becoming romantically involved with an INFJ means being wrapped in a protective cocoon of love. INFJs lead with their hearts and never want their partners to feel neglected or unappreciated, and they will seldom let a day pass without expressing their devotion and affection. They are perfectionists who want to build fantastic meaningful relationships, and they never stop trying to be more caring, attentive and involved in their companions’ lives. INFJs can be a bit intense when discussing relationship issues, but that comes from their fierce determination to create a loving union that will prosper for a lifetime. INFJs have high expectations for themselves and others and are prone to feeling let down or disappointed.
But they hate arguments and prefer to adjust their expectations rather than give their significant others a hard time. They are also great listeners and encourage the people they love to open up and share their feelings in order to promote greater understanding and a deeper romantic connection. Gentleness and warmth is the default position for INFJs in love, and while they may have some moments of doubt, they never stay upset with their companions for long.

The Downsides
In general, the INFJ aversion to conflict is a good thing. But sometimes in human relations there are important issues that must be hashed out, and INFJs are so anxious to sweep everything under the rug that they may prevent critical discussions from taking place. They have a difficult time seeing the benefits of frank, honest conversation if things have a chance of becoming heated, fearing such interactions will sabotage their goal of creating a perfect, stress-free relationship.

How to Meet Your INFJ Mate
INFJ is the rarest type in the population, so you've got your work cut out for you. You're unlikely to meet an INFJ by chance, but you can increase your odds by seeking them out in their natural habitat.
INFJs are often idealistic, and you may encounter them by volunteering for local nonprofit organizations, especially charities that serve underprivileged groups and those devoted to supporting the arts. INFJ is a particularly literary type, and may be found in libraries, bookstores, or book discussion groups. In the professional world, INFJs are often involved in health care, education, and the arts. In school, they
typically study the humanities or social sciences. And if all else fails, try posting in the discussion area of this site
(http://www.truity.com/conversations/types/categories/INFJ). Although INFJs are rare in the general population, they tend to frequent websites about personality type.
 
Your Match is an ENFJ
For ENFJs, romantic relationships provide an opportunity to make the most satisfying type of human connection. ENFJs crave relationships that are intimate, transformative, authentic and deep, and they probably enjoy falling in love more than any other type. They are nurturing, expressive, kind, encouraging and supportive. When their partners are feeling troubled or depressed, ENFJ partners will do everything in their power to bring the smiles and sunshine back into their lives.

Despite their natural warmth, ENFJs have strong values and a well-developed sense of their own dignity. When they feel a need to defend themselves or correct the mistakes of others, they can be sharp-tongued and direct in their observations and criticisms. But they see conflicts with loved ones as a product of misunderstanding and not bad intentions, and that is why they never stay mad for long. Their standards won’t be compromised, but neither will their commitment to love, and their inherent gentleness prevents them from doing or saying anything that will cause lasting damage.

The Downsides
It is very important for ENFJs to feel noticed, appreciated, cherished and loved—often, as in all the time. This isn’t inspired by insecurity, but rather by their idealistic notions about what love should be. They won’t ask for these things, however; they expect their significant others to offer them automatically without any prompting. So when normally warm and affectionate ENFJs suddenly become quiet and distant, there’s an excellent chance they’re feeling unappreciated and unloved and are worried about the state of their relationships.

Where to Find Your ENFJ Mate
ENFJs are driven to help others, and can be found in any setting where they might have the opportunity to change the world. Try volunteering for a charity or nonprofit and you're sure to encounter a few, especially if the organization is involved in guiding or inspiring youth.

In school, ENFJs are often found studying humanities or social sciences. In the work world, ENFJs can be found in a wide range of careers, but are usually working in an organization with a humanitarian mission and are often in a leadership role.
 
Your Match is an ENTJ
When love is in the air, ENTJs are like master gardeners. From small seeds of sympathetic connection, they work to produce grand, mature, lasting associations filled with tender affection and mutual respect. ENTJs put great emphasis on growth and learning, and they are always looking for ways to improve their romantic relationships for the benefit of both parties. How can we be better, smarter, kinder and more considerate to each other? These are the questions ENTJs ask of themselves and their partners, as they pursue excellence in romance to complement their other achievements.

ENTJs have strong personalities and they do like to lead. But they have absolutely no interest in dominating, which prevents this tendency from damaging their relationships. And when conflicts do arise, they always try to convert them into learning experiences, so old mistakes aren’t repeated and new understandings are obtained. They have super-high standards that can seem difficult to live up to at times, and every once in a blue moon ENTJs may be more confrontational and direct than some would prefer. But in the grand scheme of things, they find the blame game distasteful, and they are never afraid to examine and alter their own behavior.

The Downsides
ENTJs have a unique combination of personality traits that allows them to find success in a lot of diverse areas, including in romance. But with their energy, perfectionism and assertiveness, they can become a tad overbearing at times. Even their insistence on turning every moment into a learning experience can be exhausting on occasion. Fortunately they don’t take criticism personally, and if told to back off for a while, they usually will. Unlike some types, they are usually aware of their own erroneous zones.

Where to Find Your ENTJ Mate
Don't waste too much time looking for ENTJs while you're enjoying your favorite hobbies and leisure activities—this type loves to work, work, work. If they're not in the office, they may well be at a business networking event, or doing some sort of professional development activity. ENTJs can be religious about exercise, so if you see someone reading the stock report on a treadmill at the gym, there's a good chance you've spotted an ENTJ.

If there's one place you're sure to find an ENTJ, it's in the boardroom. ENTJs are often found working in business, but in any organization, they tend to rise to the top. Your best bet to scope our your dream ENTJ is to find a way to meet lots of executive types—and then hope you can pull their attention away from climbing the corporate ladder.

The last two paragraphs is actually why this type would not be a match for me. Early on, yes, I would've been mad about this type, but now? I want something a little less intense and more easy going but stable. I don't want to compete with someone's job or career. If you want to climb the corporate ladder, go for it! Hope you find someone there who wants to climb the ladder with you :).
 
The last two paragraphs is actually why this type would not be a match for me. Early on, yes, I would've been mad about this type, but now? I want something a little less intense and more easy going but stable. I don't want to compete with someone's job or career. If you want to climb the corporate ladder, go for it! Hope you find someone there who wants to climb the ladder with you :).
Exactly! XNTJs are fascinating and definitely catalysts for growth and change. Some of my favorite types. But long term, it's best to be with someone who gets you and can be sensitive to your needs. Someone who cares about the same things. An interesting mix at first, but idk about forever for INFPs. But I'm just basing this off one relationship with an INTJ ex. When I started dating my husband I was pretty shocked at how easygoing and peaceful the relationship was compared to the turbulence of the previous one.
 
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