Ok so I did tests, watched some Frank James vidyas, lurked for a while here but still not sure if I should slap that INFJ sticker on my head. How many ppl here are as INFJ btw?
I am tripping hard reading all those characteristics on this type, lot of them rings the bells for me. Excited and sceptical at the same time. I feel like sharing some of my 'weirder' one traits, just to see if anyones relate:
- I am extrovert, really. They ask me out for a spontaneous vacation trip to another city for week? Yeah, no-brainer. Although after half of the first day, social fuel goes brrr (basically, lemme be alone)
- I am introvert, really. I havent arranged any meeting with anyone in week and I enjoy myself. Also, I make sure I am busy (exams coming, u know, no time for parties :'( )
- first meeting with new people, Im like (insert Jamal voice) "YOOLOOO". I am emotional as a baby, joke, ask many questions. I am random as f--. Then, the second phase happens - thinking 'bru, I dunno thats strange, people talk about so simple things it gets boring' (starts to fade away from conversation). Then I eventually close my circus and feel like abandoning this situation.
- I eventually forget about people after meeting them, fading into my own word. Partly because it involves so much energy to be "E" type while socialising. When I meet again the person I got to know, even a bit better, I feel as if I must get to know them all over again (as if we never met before, makes sense...?)
- I feel pain and convultions on almost bodily level when I remind myself something weird I said or done, usually before sleep. Overthinking sometimes.
- I LOVE staring into lecturers eyes while attending a class. I make sure that she feels my interest. I also apply it to to students that eg. make presentation as I feel their pain & stress (head-nodding to them, smile with eyes etc.)
- I wonder how the f- I can be so happy all alone, so grateful for what I have while I have only literally 1-3 close friends (+ I am abroad right now so not much besides 'small talk' with my roommates)
- I feel baaaad for gossiping, never understood why people do it, and I calmly point out when somebody in the group start to get nasty like that - not noice!
- I think I make some people uncomfortable by being too open at he beggining
- I also like deep eye stares, that makes some people uncomfortable (sometimes I get "why r u staring at me, like I am stupid or something?!")
- always had unusual hobbies, a lot of different hobbies, obsessive thoughts on one fixed subject for a long period of time
- pondering on the meaning of the universe, suddenly I become interested in physics (and claim I invented new gravity theory, based on osmosis but on cosmic scale)
- I always liked to impersonate fictional characters that made me laugh or intrigue me. I could imagine, after watching insightful movie, that I am this person and I will pretend for a few weeks or months to be him (like for real, crazy innit?)
- I allways wonder how people can be so shallow, like endlessly watch Netflix or scroll socials.. why?! What about meaning of life, pursuing passion?!?!
- I never ever really used social media besides neccesary information, but its still painful to open them and have to scroll. Of course , besides conversation with my best friend that are allways random, ridiculous (or actually too deep for him so he switch off
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Ok I am wasting my time I have to make plans for studying soo I will add some bulletpoints later. Have a good day yall!
Jeeez, why am I posting this anyway. What am I doing with my lyfe.
I am tripping hard reading all those characteristics on this type, lot of them rings the bells for me. Excited and sceptical at the same time. I feel like sharing some of my 'weirder' one traits, just to see if anyones relate:
- I am extrovert, really. They ask me out for a spontaneous vacation trip to another city for week? Yeah, no-brainer. Although after half of the first day, social fuel goes brrr (basically, lemme be alone)
- I am introvert, really. I havent arranged any meeting with anyone in week and I enjoy myself. Also, I make sure I am busy (exams coming, u know, no time for parties :'( )
- first meeting with new people, Im like (insert Jamal voice) "YOOLOOO". I am emotional as a baby, joke, ask many questions. I am random as f--. Then, the second phase happens - thinking 'bru, I dunno thats strange, people talk about so simple things it gets boring' (starts to fade away from conversation). Then I eventually close my circus and feel like abandoning this situation.
- I eventually forget about people after meeting them, fading into my own word. Partly because it involves so much energy to be "E" type while socialising. When I meet again the person I got to know, even a bit better, I feel as if I must get to know them all over again (as if we never met before, makes sense...?)
- I feel pain and convultions on almost bodily level when I remind myself something weird I said or done, usually before sleep. Overthinking sometimes.
- I LOVE staring into lecturers eyes while attending a class. I make sure that she feels my interest. I also apply it to to students that eg. make presentation as I feel their pain & stress (head-nodding to them, smile with eyes etc.)
- I wonder how the f- I can be so happy all alone, so grateful for what I have while I have only literally 1-3 close friends (+ I am abroad right now so not much besides 'small talk' with my roommates)
- I feel baaaad for gossiping, never understood why people do it, and I calmly point out when somebody in the group start to get nasty like that - not noice!
- I think I make some people uncomfortable by being too open at he beggining
- I also like deep eye stares, that makes some people uncomfortable (sometimes I get "why r u staring at me, like I am stupid or something?!")
- always had unusual hobbies, a lot of different hobbies, obsessive thoughts on one fixed subject for a long period of time
- pondering on the meaning of the universe, suddenly I become interested in physics (and claim I invented new gravity theory, based on osmosis but on cosmic scale)
- I always liked to impersonate fictional characters that made me laugh or intrigue me. I could imagine, after watching insightful movie, that I am this person and I will pretend for a few weeks or months to be him (like for real, crazy innit?)
- I allways wonder how people can be so shallow, like endlessly watch Netflix or scroll socials.. why?! What about meaning of life, pursuing passion?!?!
- I never ever really used social media besides neccesary information, but its still painful to open them and have to scroll. Of course , besides conversation with my best friend that are allways random, ridiculous (or actually too deep for him so he switch off
)Ok I am wasting my time I have to make plans for studying soo I will add some bulletpoints later. Have a good day yall!
Jeeez, why am I posting this anyway. What am I doing with my lyfe.
