I have to ask if it becomes a problem for most INFJ's repeatedly throughout their lives that they attain a reputation amongst their friends and family as 'the go-to person for good advice' and then find themselves holding the same position as 'The one guy in the family who knows competently how to fix a computer'. I've found myself being asked dozens of questions by several people lately and I had removed myself from involvement in most of their relationships. I did my best and yet people are still coming to me for this and to be honest, I have a great deal of trouble saying no. Troubled souls always bother me rather badly. What is your method? How do you help the pathological healer?