Hello. Ive resolved my identity crisis. I realised that my enneagram is either a 4w5 or a 5w4, Leaning more to 5w4 though. Either way, both are equally strong. My main question is about chameleonism and Fe, or Fi, whatever it is. After indulging in descriptions of INFJs and INFPs, I feel that i relate more to the INFJ "stereotypes". My approach toward emotion is very analytical and I've confused myself for an INTJ, though, my dad is an INTJ and we can't FULLY relate to each other. The main thing is this: I feel emotions, deep inside. I am quite expressive, though i react the way I'm supposed to. Meaning, I am constantly aware of the people around me, of their vibes, their moods and just them. I am truthful in my replies, but I really am too aware of others. I tend to take in their feelings, i may not show it, but i ponder over their worries too. Its almost as if it becomes my problem. I help out when i can, though emotional saturation and apathy tend to get the better of me. Its this feeling of being consumed by other's emotions, and not being able to differentiate yours from theirs immediately. It takes time. I do get to the root of their problems though. Anyway, Fe types are supposed to be.. outwardly expressive. though i am not. I am expressive, but only to a certain extend. everything else takes place inside, emotions mainly. Therefore if I'm asked a question, i don't want to hurt the questioner and i sort of flow along because i worry about.. hmm. like saying no would create some sort of emotional reaction towards me and i would pick that up and spend the next few hours beating myself up over that. I do not know if this is a form of Fe, or Fi. My outward reaction, really is based on the other person, unless its someone really dear to me. In terms of chameleonism, i tend to be able to get along with everyone, its just the chameleonism of feelings that affect me. If i look at it logically, their feelings become mine, i spend hours separating mine from theirs and my intellectual pursuits remain stagnant. I can blend in with everyone, if i have to. in that sense i don't bother about uniqueness, its the actions that matter more. I tend to start the fire and fade back into my head, or heart, or whatever. Do excuse my tone. I don't mean to seem rude. Usually there is a lot of dialogue going on in my head, thoughts, which is why i confused myself for a INTJ. So am i utilizing Fe or Fi? Do feel free to probe with more questions. This does feel very paradoxical and weird as i might be a 5w4 with a fe type, if it is such. Its a very, very tough situation. Living normally is tough, but manageable for now.