Why do you think an ENFP likes INFJ's?
Good question, because I honestly don't know what to think.
Because of their flightiness and attraction for anything exciting, I would think that I would be a boring companion for them to have (which I found isn't the case, but I still can't help but to think it).
I am always making friends with ENFPs, and they are usually the ones to approach me, as I am rather reserved and formal in social settings. Even so, I think they like me because of how much I listen to them and take interest in their lives and thoughts. I am sensitive to them, and am constantly praising and giving reassurance, because I understand that they really do need and appreciate it. I am gentle and accepting, so maybe I am not seen at all as a threat to them, but more so as someone that they could confide in and be themselves around.
I really don't know for sure though, but this is what I'd like to think.
What does an INFJ think of an ENFP?
As for what I think of the ENFPs I have encountered, I find them to be absolutely delightful. They are certainly very childlike, and innocent in a way that makes me want to be protective. They are definitely off in their own world, and they are unique in the way that they interact with others - very warm, but also very hyper and open about themselves as well. They are people-people, social and outgoing, but also have the biggest hearts. They might not understand me, but they don't seem to be upset with it, rather they still like my company, and I appreciate just how easy it is to get along with them. Their scattered minds really amuse me.
What can an ENFP do to help an INFJ?
I don't think I've ever had an ENFP companion ask me how they could be of any help... Huh.
The only thing that comes to mind is to really listen, but in the way that I want them to seems to be more of an Fe-way rather than Fi, which doesn't seem like something that would really come to them, if at all.
Just take interest in whatever it is that they might want to talk about, encourage conversation with them about it. We'd really like that. (Might have to coax us out of our shells though - it takes a lot for me to freely talk about myself with someone!)
What traits should an ENFP control when dealing with INFJ friends?
Understand that we are by no means all that extroverted, and while I really do appreciate being invited to parties and other social events, it's most likely that I really don't want to show up (I only will just to make you happy). Don't force us into social situations with you, and please just keep our interactions one-on-one. Save all of the partying and invites for your more extroverted friends.