How would you tell apart an INTP from an INTJ?
That would depend on who and what type(s) you `are' or test-as.
I've venture that most INFJs would recognize more similarities in INTJs.
As an INTP I see INxJs as cut from the same cloth woven from obsession for closure & certainty, compartmentalization, and snap-to-grid thinking,
functional fixedness, and tendency to refrain from painting outside the box.
How do you think are they different in the ways they are wired?
Motivations, behavior, attitudes?
If you spread out both over both a normal distribution curve and a full spread of Enneagram types you'll notice the variability.
I've noticed that the core Enneagram type for both is 5.
In a poll taken in the yahoo group INTP-type a few years back 50% of those responding self-reported as Enneagram type 5.
Keirsey's application of the term `rationals' to all the xNTx MBTI character types to arrive at his NT/Rationals `Temperament' obscures a distinction I've noticed: NTJs tend to rationalIZE ... INTJs included.
By this I mean that their thinking starts at the closure and certanty of a J and then backtracks to shore up the end goal.
Process is held as variable with respect to the invariable ends as the INTJ's ends-justifies-the-means goal-seeking processes are manifested.
For INTPs Process is primary and goals are typically soft, flexible, and/or variable.
Ps are said to have a `play ethic' in contrast with the Js `work ethic'.
So this plays out with INTPs quite often outperforming the INTJs by playing as the INTJs work, toil, strive, etc.
A good friend of mine is an INTP and I'm an INTJ.
We talk a lot, discuss a lot, yet there seems to be hardly any difference between the two of us.
I've had a few INTJ friends where this was the case for an interval.
I've noticed that I could pretty much figure out what makes the INTJ tick but they rarely if ever figure out what floats my boat.
(I also have to apologize for always starting INTJ threads in here, but I've come to the conclusion that you have far better knowledge of people than say INTPc or INTJf.
You have to read their threads about this issue, they're written in algebra.).
You got a problem with algebra?
Let A be an element of the set of all INTJs
Let B be an element of the set of all INTPs ...
Frankly, without awareness of the Enneagram type of the INTx there is too much variability between generic INTJs and INTPs for any take-away message or heuristics to do one much good.
Enneagram 5w6 types of both INTJ and INTP both seem to buy on to the same myth of objectivity and confuse and conflate the consensus reality of `scientists' or `objectivists' for `Objectivity'.
Enneagram 5w4 types of both INTJ and INTP seem more prone to individualistic ways of thinking and more capable of
intersubjective interactions with co-equal peers ... as well as having more of an artistic bent which makes them less dorky, dweeby, and nerdy than their 5w6 counterparts.
I had an INTJ woman `friend' who also tested as an Enneagram type 8.
If you want to interact with someone who KNOWs they are RIGHT and can only see things from one `objective' perspective I recommend you find one of these.
To close, the J vs P feature and how intuition is expressed seem the biggies to me.
As an INTP 5w4 I seem to synthesize new ways of looking at things and thinking outside the box.
INTJs seem to intuit to themselves then act -- without warning -- in ways which prune the otherwise ramifying tree of emergent phenomena, then, like so many J types use the post_hoc `had to' in an attempt to justify their unilateral actions.
If I want someone who sets personal goals and hidden agendas then act unilaterally while trashing fair play and Process ... then rationalize their attitudes and actions after the damage is done I'll go looking for an INTJ 5w6, 6w5, 8, or 1.
If I want someone with whom to `play' in a peer-to-peer sort of way I look for INxP 4w5 or 5w4.
These are just my personal preferences.
As for `telling'/discerning between INTP and INTJ ... unless he or she has it tatooed on his or her forehead you're not going to `know' anyway.
So we're just speaking categorically and hypothetically here.
As both may only constitute about 1% of the general population you're not likely to bump into either out in public spaces all that often.
And when you do you are likely to not recognize them as they've typically learned to keep their necks down and quack like Sensate `ducks' as per the protective coloration of `ugly ducklings'.