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Barnabas

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Ever feel like you've been replaced by one of your friends? Like everything they used to do they now do with some one else.
 
Not really, but I feel like one my friends thinks I'm replacing her for another friend. :/
 
Yeah. It happens. People grow up and grow apart.
 
It doesn't happen with just friends...
 
I feel like they don't want to be full friends with me in the first place; like they don't want to do anything with me (which isn't to say that it isn't my fault to some extent).

It seems like everyone always has better people to hang out with than me.
 
I flow in and out of certain relationships depending on where I am in life. Many of my female friends either currently have crushes on me or have at some point in the past, so, for example, right now, when I'm actively going after a girl, I let our friendship drift a bit since our friendship's history would overwhelm the fragile new relationship I'm forming with said girl.
 
Not really. I agree with [MENTION=2096]DevilDoll[/MENTION] though, people do tend to drift apart over time, whether physically or emotionally or otherwise, even those with whom you share a significant attachment.