I used to have a best friend since Jr. High age who I believe to be an INFJ. We went to prom together at my high school. He was always asking me to move in with him, but he was always in relationships. When I was in relationships he became irrational & jealous. He always said they weren't good enough for me.
We reconnected a few years back, and he called me his muse. The female version of himself. He would keep me on the phone for 14 hours, and I started to let myself fall for him. He said he had been entertaining the thought of making me his next girlfriend. We finally had a chance to be together when his longtime live in girlfriend left him. He would come over, cook me dinner, snuggle & watch movies together. It was perfect.... at last. One night he caught his estranged gf in bed with another man, and he came over to my house in the middle of the night, got drunk, and tried to sleep with me. While he was holding me he said this, "I don't want to date you, because we're too similar, but I want to make love to you."
... yeah, so... I door slammed him. That was too painful a rejection for me to continue. I keep losing my best male friends in situations like this... :S
