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People Making Bad Situations Worse

Flavus Aquila

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I've noticed that when an unfortunate situation arises, that some normally quiet people step in out of nowhere to make things worse.

I saw it at a cafe a while back, where there was a slight misunderstanding between a customer and a waitress. Some guy sitting on his own raised his voice and made the situation to be about the customer always being right.

The spin and rant almost had other people cheering him. It was surreal.

Why do uninvolved third parties exaggerate situations when something could be fixed with a simple "oops, my mistake"?