So i've been seeing a guy since last year and he suddenly got busy with work after a few months right when I started to have strong feelings, and he did warn me at the beginning that it it wasn't a good idea to try and do it because he was super busy BUT apparently he was also occasionally able to find time to see his other friends (I don't know what he's been doing all the time but sometimes he's told me about seeing a friend)...now I've seen that a lot of dating "experts" or w.e say that guys might try that when things are about to get serious because they want to test boundaries and they can also pull away as well because they still want their freedom. So I've been trying to pull away and see if he misses me and it's made him text me a few times. You're supposed to cut contact with them for 30 days which is supposed to make them realize that you're not waiting around for them and make them pursue you more. Anyway, I'm wondering if this is the way to go. I don't want to seem needy so I definitely don't want to text first all the time (I did this before) and I don't want to give up on this but at the same time, I miss him a lot and he's in my head so much that it's driving me crazy. I guess I'm kind of needy (slightly) relationship wise just for reassurance and quality time but don't let on about it (which apparently tends to be an INFJ thing). So I'm wondering if I should just forgo the no contact thing and send a text saying that I like him but my needs aren't being met, etc. I just don't want to do anything that will make it seem like I'm a "crazy" girl. Argh I hate all these feels. Has anyone else been in this situation before?