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    I think I understand part of it. I'm fairly certain I'll never have to deal with this. I might add in the INFJ tag if I were in a position to do it.
     
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    I used Tinder recently and decided to add INFJ to my bio. Interestingly, this made me match with some female INFJs, whom I had interesting chats with.

    As far as I can tell, anything that can help you have an actual conversation with someone you match on Tinder is a good thing. There are just so many matches that never lead to a conversation. Heck, I've made over two hundred videos on INFJs, I might as well own it :D
     
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    Pin "Magnificent Bastard" / Ren's Counterpart

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    I added ENTJ to my Tinder profile and right out of the gate people presume I'm a dick.

    It's like, at least give me some time to express my depraved inner-core.
     
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    For some reason it is a funny thought that you're on Tinder.

    Do you have as part of your bio: "Only people thoroughly familiar with the details of the Napoleonic Code shall be swiped right"?
     
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    Pin "Magnificent Bastard" / Ren's Counterpart

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    WAS on Tinder.

    I realized that it's more productive to meet women in real life, text them, or just slide into their DMs.

    Tinder is a fucking sausage-fest.
     
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    So feckin true :weary:
     
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    Too many men, not enough women.

    We need a world war.
     
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    @Pin

    Would you believe that I've been on around 20 Tinder dates?

    I must be an ESFP.
     
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    Yes. With military enrollment compulsory for sensors :smilingimp:
     
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    I can believe it, you're a handsome man in a densely populated urban area. It's a miracle you don't have the clap.

    :tearsofjoy:
     
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    This is the most Te thing I've heard you say in a long time.

    This is the most F thing I've heard you express in a long time.

    This is where my INFJness comes out with full force: I hardly ever seal the deal!
     
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    If I were dating I'd add my MBTI. I probably wouldn't be on Tinder, though.
    It would narrow down the field and help find compatible people. It isn't as much about type compatibility, or about whether MBTI is an accurate system, but about understanding how and why people are different and accepting their differences.

    I don't know. I see a lot of problems arise in marriages where the two people have very little in common.
    I married exactly who I thought I'd end up with and wanted to end up with. I don't usually go for blondes, so that was the biggest deviation.

    How much more INTJ can you get?
     
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    Date, "You want to come upstairs?"
    INFJ, "Nah,"
     
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    Ugh, dating.

    I honestly can't be bothered (yet).

    But yeah, to Gaze's question - anything which reveals what you think is your 'true self' is preferable.
     
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    We operate very differently.

    I am to the point.

    Like a pin.
     
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    Pin "Magnificent Bastard" / Ren's Counterpart

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    The convenience of modern life is overwhelming. It's strange how we go on these Amazon dates and just pick what we want like a morning coffee.

    It's already pretty normal to use dating apps. You don't even have to leave your house these days to engage with the world.

    Are we all just going to be retail workers and computer programmers? White-collar serfs?
     
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    I'd say no to Tinder, but would state INFJ with a splash of ENTJ :p
     
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    Haha. This speaks to me :m187:
     
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