Hello everyone,
I'm an ambivert type INFJ who can really thrive in a friendly environment and be more extraverted than anyone else, that's why, I think, people are often confused what to think about me and several times different people blamed me being too complicated. Although I'm a people person who get along well with everyone in any situation, I have come to realize that most of the men are intimated by me. With that I mean, it is like I have some kind of invisible protection circle around me and no men dare to violate these boundaries. I'm not doing anything to present myself as unattainable lady on purpose, yet guys around me do not think so and label me as aloof, distant and call me sword covered with cotton sugar which makes me offended as I am gonna never ever accept. Sometimes I see my facial expression in the mirror or the reflection of my face in a glass door and I cannot lie, it's too scary..... I really don't know why I am this way and cannot accept me being this way as I'm very compassionate and considerate inside. Lately I've realized that when I'm daydreaming or trying to intensely focus on something in order to do my best, my face becomes really serious and scary unintentionally. At those times, my friends start to ask if I'm feeling ok, if there is something bothering me and those questions pisses me off. Is it INFJ thing? and how to be more approachable lady for men?
I'm an ambivert type INFJ who can really thrive in a friendly environment and be more extraverted than anyone else, that's why, I think, people are often confused what to think about me and several times different people blamed me being too complicated. Although I'm a people person who get along well with everyone in any situation, I have come to realize that most of the men are intimated by me. With that I mean, it is like I have some kind of invisible protection circle around me and no men dare to violate these boundaries. I'm not doing anything to present myself as unattainable lady on purpose, yet guys around me do not think so and label me as aloof, distant and call me sword covered with cotton sugar which makes me offended as I am gonna never ever accept. Sometimes I see my facial expression in the mirror or the reflection of my face in a glass door and I cannot lie, it's too scary..... I really don't know why I am this way and cannot accept me being this way as I'm very compassionate and considerate inside. Lately I've realized that when I'm daydreaming or trying to intensely focus on something in order to do my best, my face becomes really serious and scary unintentionally. At those times, my friends start to ask if I'm feeling ok, if there is something bothering me and those questions pisses me off. Is it INFJ thing? and how to be more approachable lady for men?