Hey Everyone,
I've just finally joined the forum and I am hoping that you might be able to offer some guidance into finding a relationship since I'm curious if my problem is ubiquitous to other INFJ's. Basically, I am a guy that has kind of (not 100% actively) been searching for a girlfriend for several years now.
My problems are this:
I'm usually "friendzoned" rather easily as i'm seen the dependable guy since we're are so caring.
I find it rather difficult for myself to put my emotions out and trust someone with them or have someone delve deeper into my private and/or inner life.
As I have seen on other posts, we INFJ's easily drop friendships and pick them up as if nothing has ever happened, so I'm usually written off since i'm not constantly communicating (To be honest, I dislike constant communications)
Girls that I have tried to date don't understand it when I withdraw from the world and then write me off.
Do you guys experience or have you experienced these problems as well? Do you have any suggestions that you could please provide me to help me start a relationship and overcome these obstacles? I would greatly appreciate if you could help me out. Thank you!!
I've just finally joined the forum and I am hoping that you might be able to offer some guidance into finding a relationship since I'm curious if my problem is ubiquitous to other INFJ's. Basically, I am a guy that has kind of (not 100% actively) been searching for a girlfriend for several years now.
My problems are this:
I'm usually "friendzoned" rather easily as i'm seen the dependable guy since we're are so caring.
I find it rather difficult for myself to put my emotions out and trust someone with them or have someone delve deeper into my private and/or inner life.
As I have seen on other posts, we INFJ's easily drop friendships and pick them up as if nothing has ever happened, so I'm usually written off since i'm not constantly communicating (To be honest, I dislike constant communications)
Girls that I have tried to date don't understand it when I withdraw from the world and then write me off.
Do you guys experience or have you experienced these problems as well? Do you have any suggestions that you could please provide me to help me start a relationship and overcome these obstacles? I would greatly appreciate if you could help me out. Thank you!!