My INFJ friend and I have been friends for over a year and a half. For about a year, he would joke about being my husband and being married to me. So, even though I really like him, I wasn’t sure if he was just being flirtatious. He has a lot of female friends. He claims he has no interest in them. One of the female friends is my friend, she does like him. Her name is Rachel. She constantly calls and tells me that he texts her that he misses her, she’s staying in Boston now, while we are in the Midwest. So, I figured he must like her, so I back away and stopped communicating with him unless it was necessary. I don’t want to cause a strife between our friendships if he truly likes her. He doesn’t like talking on the phone, but in the last month he has called me at least once a week.
FYI, he is 8 years younger than I am. He’s 27 yrs old and has an old soul. Well, anyway, him and I had lunch together and he thanked me for some advise I had given him and said that nobody ever been that honest with him. After that, he visited me the next week when I was sick and he kept video taping me. And he told me he has other videos and picture of me. Then he mentioned that he wants to meet my family and he’s looking through my family and friends pictures. Something he has never done before, and he’s been over here a few times in the last year.
This week he invited me over to his house and I noticed that he had six other male friends there, his family, and I was the only non-relative adult female. So, the question is, does he see me as one of the guys, an older woman that he can get advise from, just family, just a friend or more? He always says that all of his female friends are just friends, BTW. And no, I will not ask. And I am ISTP.
FYI, he is 8 years younger than I am. He’s 27 yrs old and has an old soul. Well, anyway, him and I had lunch together and he thanked me for some advise I had given him and said that nobody ever been that honest with him. After that, he visited me the next week when I was sick and he kept video taping me. And he told me he has other videos and picture of me. Then he mentioned that he wants to meet my family and he’s looking through my family and friends pictures. Something he has never done before, and he’s been over here a few times in the last year.
This week he invited me over to his house and I noticed that he had six other male friends there, his family, and I was the only non-relative adult female. So, the question is, does he see me as one of the guys, an older woman that he can get advise from, just family, just a friend or more? He always says that all of his female friends are just friends, BTW. And no, I will not ask. And I am ISTP.