Well, so you think that FE, and FI are without merit? Meaning they don't describe behaviors, and that you can't identify more toward one than the other.
I'm new at this, but I have felt more accurate descriptions of behaviors and traits, either prenatal or learned, about stuff I can ID with. But for example the way I see FE in me, while strong, is very different than the way others explain it; regardless, I still see it. But then maybe it's something we all have and doesn't describe one person better than another other.
But at the same time:
I guy hugs a child.
People will say it's love, weird curiosity, sympathy, being protective. Are any of these more clearly defined. We are just describing behaviors and emotions.
I'm not sure if I understand how the science is either strong or weak.
Its weak because it isn't science at all. Its just observation and theory but no evidence and no testing. In that way MBTI is almost identical to astrology. Which as we all know is complete bullshit. The only difference is that MBTI makes much more realistic observations.
"love" is another catchall phrase. I don't agree with it, I think its absurd.
Its exactly the Fe / Te difference that made me understand early on why this cognitive function stuff is junk. If a guy hugs a little kid who is crying
is it Fe? He feels the child's emotions empathetically and wants to soothe them?
or
is it Te? He understands that this is what the child needs and will stop the crying?
is it both?
In my case I have noticed that my motivation for doing 1 thing over the other is almost equally the same for all functions. That I don't really favor 1 thing over another, that the combined understanding of the entire situation is what I read into and make a choice on. Which can literally be ALL functions... well, if I am using ALL functions equally, what's the point of having functions at all?
Its there that the box MBTI and Jung tries to put us in begins to break down. Because too many people are trying to put themselves into a box with these theories not out of understanding but due to pride. INFJs are the WORST when it comes to this and thats been my experience here.
The amount of smug lip smacking self love that I see demonstrated, telling people you're psychic, or a medium, and can read their feelings because you are an INFJ and then using the pseudoscience of MBTI verbiage to back it up, its nonsense.
I've been slowly whittling down my usage of MBTI terms... just because the more I think about it the more absurd it seems. I stick around this forum because I like people here and its a good community. that we talk about MBTI at all is just a sideshow I deal with. Most forums have a "theme" but its the connections we make to the people that I like personally.