I've never really been one for actually "dating." But I guess a lot of the outings that I went on with men were considered dates... just not to me lol.
I hate the idea of "dates", it feels like there is too much pressure when you're on a date. So I don't really date.... I hang out. It's easier that way, no pressure or expectation for it to be anything it's not. I haven't been on an 'official date' since summer of 2010. It was a horrible "date" because he only talked about himself and how he hadn't been with a girl in 4 years. Plus I was never interested or attracted to him. We ended up drag racing some guys in a Honda for shits. We got pulled over and although Max was in the army, they wouldn't let him off so I had to use my womanly charm for the popo to let us free. It worked. I'm still friends with Max but he's a better friend to play pool and go to the shooting range with. Plus, me and my gay bff think he's in the closet since he has a tendency to stare at guy's asses too much. I haven't been on a date since...... and I don't intend to...
On my last date we played ping-pong but didn't have much in common. After I walked her home we didn't talk again except on rare occasions. I'd greet her and sometimes stop to chat.
I wasn't really into her and much of the date was like a chore. We were both doing our absolute best to force something but the chemistry wasn't there.
We let each other go because we realized that we weren't for each other.