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How long has it been? The date version

When were you last on a date?

  • I've never dated.

    Votes: 3 12.5%
  • Within the past week

    Votes: 3 12.5%
  • One to two weeks ago

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Two weeks - 1 month ago

    Votes: 1 4.2%
  • 1-2 months ago

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • 2-3 months ago

    Votes: 1 4.2%
  • 3-6 months ago

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • 6-9 months ago

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 9-12 months ago

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • One to two years

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Over two years ago

    Votes: 8 33.3%

  • Total voters
    24

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How long has it been since your last date?
 
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20 years.
 
I've never really been one for actually "dating." But I guess a lot of the outings that I went on with men were considered dates... just not to me lol.
 
we used to have "date night" then things kinda went to hell. working on reinstalling date night
 
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The last "date" my ex-husband and I went on was early December 2007 (his work Christmas party).
 
Nine days ago, we went to his work do. Free drinks, yuuuss.
 
last time resembling a "date" was "coffee" with a batshit wizard i stopped talking to LOL

couple weeks ago i guess?
 
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I hate the idea of "dates", it feels like there is too much pressure when you're on a date. So I don't really date.... I hang out. It's easier that way, no pressure or expectation for it to be anything it's not. I haven't been on an 'official date' since summer of 2010. It was a horrible "date" because he only talked about himself and how he hadn't been with a girl in 4 years. Plus I was never interested or attracted to him. We ended up drag racing some guys in a Honda for shits. We got pulled over and although Max was in the army, they wouldn't let him off so I had to use my womanly charm for the popo to let us free. It worked. I'm still friends with Max but he's a better friend to play pool and go to the shooting range with. Plus, me and my gay bff think he's in the closet since he has a tendency to stare at guy's asses too much. I haven't been on a date since...... and I don't intend to...
 
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a few weeks ago, and by date, it was going out to eat or have a drink at a local restaurant. nothing big really.
 
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Early August I think. It was actually an Arctic Monkeys concert. Amazing concert...the after part got kinda weird.
 
Maybe two years.

On my last date we played ping-pong but didn't have much in common. After I walked her home we didn't talk again except on rare occasions. I'd greet her and sometimes stop to chat.

I wasn't really into her and much of the date was like a chore. We were both doing our absolute best to force something but the chemistry wasn't there.

We let each other go because we realized that we weren't for each other.
 
...about 4 months. I'm supposed to go on one this weekend, but I'm thinking about cancelling. :unhappy:
 
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