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How long has it been? The date version

Discussion in 'Relationships and Sociology' started by Soulful, Dec 25, 2011.

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  1. I've never dated.

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  2. Within the past week

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  3. One to two weeks ago

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  4. Two weeks - 1 month ago

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  5. 1-2 months ago

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  6. 2-3 months ago

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  7. 3-6 months ago

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  8. 6-9 months ago

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  9. 9-12 months ago

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  10. One to two years

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  11. Over two years ago

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    I've never really been one for actually "dating." But I guess a lot of the outings that I went on with men were considered dates... just not to me lol.
     
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    The last "date" my ex-husband and I went on was early December 2007 (his work Christmas party).
     
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    last time resembling a "date" was "coffee" with a batshit wizard i stopped talking to LOL

    couple weeks ago i guess?
     
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    Maybe two years.

    On my last date we played ping-pong but didn't have much in common. After I walked her home we didn't talk again except on rare occasions. I'd greet her and sometimes stop to chat.

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    ...about 4 months. I'm supposed to go on one this weekend, but I'm thinking about cancelling. :unhappy:
     
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