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    A lot of ladies have said that to me over msn and so forth.

    Why do you assume this is, and would you date me exclusively if you could?
     
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    If I were a woman I would have you arrested
     
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    I would marry you right now if i could. *sighs*
     
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    Oh ha ha ha.
     
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    Because you're only good for fuck and fly.

    As in people would only fly to Oz to fuck you, don't be too down about it though, the fact that they'd pay for a round trip just to sleep with you for a while should be flattering enough in of itself.
     
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    Well, from a womans perspective, you do come across as pushy.

    I wouldn't date you, partly because two ENTP's in a relationship wouldn't work.

    Otherwise besides that you come across as carefree. So if anyone here likes a carefree aussie bloke, then Shai Gar's the man for you.
     
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    I think the real question is, why would anyone of sound mind, in possession of all functions, even consider doing anything to Shai that didn't involve flaming torches, restraining orders and the death penalty?

    Shai, you're ugly as sin actually, but timid ladies seem to fall for your overly inflated ego when they start to actually beleive your high opinion of yourself is well grounded.

    Can you teach me how Ben Kenobi?:D
     
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    It's all about how you see yourself.

    I was a very polite nice guy a long time ago. But there was this incredibly rude and ugly guy that kept getting laid with awesomehot girls. I asked a mate and he said that it's all about how you see yourself, and the confidence you have.

    I found my confidence in making myself whole, to myself and none others. I didn't need anyone else and started socialising based on that. I liked who I actually liked, and that was attractive.

    That's the secret. It's not even a secret. Most people just don't live it.

    But this isn't a dating thread. Go read all the male websites out there and adapt it all to you.
     
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    I don't think two ENTPs would not work...sounds like tons of tun... just the apartment would be terribly messy.

    And as an ADD ENTP I would prefer my significant other be able to remind me of important suff... that would be really nice.

    I wouldn't date Shai because somthing about that thought screams
    BAD IDEA!
     
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    This is surprisingly good advice

    I agree, if you believe you are attractive and confident, others will see that you believe it and think it must be true.

    If someone disagrees, it's them that is wrong, not you

    Fake it 'til you make it
     
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    I am also an ENTP with ADD. But I can remind people of significant things.
     
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    1) I don't believe you

    2) That's the solution. Women can't put up with you for more than a few days at most.

    Although that would highly depend on the extent and how the condition is treated.
     
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    Because you present as intelligent, funny, and likely a good provider, but you also present as capriciously cruel and uninterested in or incapable of fidelity.

    I think one side of the equation probably overwhelms the other.

    If I were free, I'm ashamed to admit I'd be intrigued by the first half, but my sense of self-protection and dignity would kick in quickly with the second.
     
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    I am very very loyal.
     
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    chatting with you disabused me of all possible romantic or platonic interest. But yet i'm still somewhat intrigued.
     
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    There's a fine line between confidence and Used Car Salesman.

    That's all I'm sayin'. :m129:
     
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    I'm only intrigued because the naive woman in me says, "oh, he's just misunderstood and some good ole' fashioned lovin' would bring out the real and wonderful person that he is." On the other hand, the seemingly intelligent person in me says, "wtf . . . are you crazy? Run for your life!!!"
     
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    I wouldn't date you Shai. you make me laugh and you are crazy and weird and random and all the things I like. BUT you're ENTP, and I've had a terrible and a heartbreaking experience with one, so no no no for me.

    sorry. :p
     
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