Mainly for the females of the forum but obviously guys can get on the train if they know a charming individual.
Describe some who is charming.
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I find @bamf; and @IndigoSensor; very charming.
I find their overall demeanor to be respectful, funny, witty, serious....complex. It is hard to define what you find charming. I guess the best I can say is it is more of a sense that the person is really genuine and honest in their willingness to be friendly and open.
Edit: Didn't even see where it was posted at! Is there a test I missed?
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Edit Edit Edit: I love you too @Royal;
I find their overall demeanor to be respectful, funny, witty, serious....complex. It is hard to define what you find charming. I guess the best I can say is it is more of a sense that the person is really genuine and honest in their willingness to be friendly and open.
Edit: Didn't even see where it was posted at! Is there a test I missed?
Edit Edit: OMG you caught a Winky Dink here @Barnabas; Throw it back! Throw it back!
Edit Edit Edit: I love you too @Royal;
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Here's the test
Is it me????????
a) ya
b) ya
c) na
if you have a majority of a, you're awesome
if you have a majority of b, you're awesome
if you have a majority of c, you're a liar and an ego breaker
Real answer:
I think a genuine smile is very, very charming. Be truly happy in the front of me and I swear I'll melt like a snowman in the Sahara.
I couldn't precisely describe what I find charming, it really depends of the person.
However I can describe the opposite very easily: [MENTION=3096]Sonyab[/MENTION]
Is it me????????
a) ya
b) ya
c) na
if you have a majority of a, you're awesome
if you have a majority of b, you're awesome
if you have a majority of c, you're a liar and an ego breaker
Real answer:
I think a genuine smile is very, very charming. Be truly happy in the front of me and I swear I'll melt like a snowman in the Sahara.
I couldn't precisely describe what I find charming, it really depends of the person.
However I can describe the opposite very easily: [MENTION=3096]Sonyab[/MENTION]
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You'd have to meet my friend Stefan. It's a hard thing to describe, it can be duplicated but it's hard to describe. A lot of it has to do with the way he smiles and his body language. I don't know if it could be considered charming but it *Ahem* has served his purposes. I've mimicked his mannerisms in the past to serve my own agendas but my integrity is too strong now to stoop to those types of levels and the type of girls I'm interested in is not the type that likes those kinds of mannerisms.
Charming to me is someone who has an endearing demeanour upon first meeting them, it's rather surface, that's not to suggest someone who is charming cannot have substance it's just that part of their personality is surface and about appearance. Too much charm is pure sleaze but the right amount is found in those you are drawn to because of their social grace and ability to put people at ease.
Get to know the person and I would use a different more precise word to describe that part of them, what that is depends on if I still consider them endearing or if they've moved into the slightly sleazy category, and that part depends on if I consider their charm surface, fake and about manipulating people or if it is representative of something deeper yet pure.
Get to know the person and I would use a different more precise word to describe that part of them, what that is depends on if I still consider them endearing or if they've moved into the slightly sleazy category, and that part depends on if I consider their charm surface, fake and about manipulating people or if it is representative of something deeper yet pure.
ESFP's. Super smiley, always make you feel like they're happy to see you and that you're the only one that matters right then. I don't like them much, though. After two minutes of charm, one of two things usually happens:
1) they talk about themselves endlessly
2) they reveal their agenda / try to get you to do something
I much prefer quiet and intense personalities.
1) they talk about themselves endlessly
2) they reveal their agenda / try to get you to do something
I much prefer quiet and intense personalities.
refined and easy in manner with no nervous agitation or superfluity of response. disciplined mastery of self, no need to seek gratification. deeply considered approach to the world. able to listen in conversation and respond with thought to what is being said rather than merely broadcast own preformulated opinions. appreciative of the individual fine qualities of others genuinely and with respect.
a person who is not charming is a person who is noisy and without restraint. flaunts their own positive personal characteristics, has no humility. rather than paying attention, seeks attention. who invades personal boundaries with an overbearing need to dominate others and be recognised as charming or glamorous.
a person who is not charming is a person who is noisy and without restraint. flaunts their own positive personal characteristics, has no humility. rather than paying attention, seeks attention. who invades personal boundaries with an overbearing need to dominate others and be recognised as charming or glamorous.