Being an INFJ, I've never been into what I would call traditional male stuff and I realize that created a barrier for my relationship with my father. I have trouble typing him but He's probably an ESFJ and into topics I have trouble being interested in. I realized now at 35, that I stopped trying in the relationship around age 17 because I felt he stopped trying to connect and understand me. After having children I have realized that I would like him to be more involved in my kids lives. I would like to include him more and looking for suggestions. Should also mention that I'm from rural midwestMwhere people don't talk openly about their feelings.