As an INFJ, or maybe me as a person, I am very sensitive like super sensitive.. I analyze every action people do but then........ in social situations... I don't know why... It's just natural.. I become insensitive and I do feel guilty... but I don't know why I appear too blunt and insensitive... maybe I am blunt but not too much as when I'm with strangers it's like... I'm unconsciously trying to isolate myself from people a while ago, we had a soiree and it was really boring.... I study in an all girls school and so I don't really go out to meet guys.. like purposely. and many of my classmates are like this too... the girls and the guys are separated and compared to our last soiree, this was really really way too boring and......a guy went like please go there.. and I was like.. no one's even there and we played truth or dare... and then it's my turn and they asked me who I think was most good looking guy and I told them no one uh.... I think it's too insensitive...... oh my.... well I just do that not ONLY to guys... but whenever I meet someone new... it's like there's another me talking to people then when they get to know me more... they see a whole different me.. the true me do you do this too? like being insensitive to strangers? or is it just me?