Hi there,
I've recently come to know myself more and more, I'm 28 now and I took a long time to come out at 26 as gay due to being Aspergers.
The issue came from being an extroverted type that has a condition that shackles my main outlet of energy.
Imagine as an INFJ, you need to go and be alone really badly and forever being stuck in a crowd forced to keep talking for the reast of your life. That is what's it like to be an ENFP with aspergers, but the opposite way around for me.
I have an impulse to go and meet people and make friends but most of the time it's like I'm speaking Spanish to Japanese only speakers.
Luckily this has inadvertently helped me find more friends that I'm going to lean more towards having as friends to know anyways as an ENFP. INFJ's and INTJ's I'm very lucky to know 2 of each in my best friends circle.
My only problem lies in that I'm finding it quite hard getting on with other types in a romantic relationship setting.
Do any gay INFJ's have any advice in this?
I feel like most often INFJ's don't use dating websites maybe, and I probably wont meet an INFJ at a club where most INFJ gay guys don't have much acceptance there for some reason by other gay guys.
I'm a thoughtful guy, I care deeply about those around me and I'm adventurous, friendly and fun with those that take the time to get to know me.
Heck if there's an INFJ guy on here who would be open to us getting to know each other and see what happens.
Friends first with no expectations, no pressure, hey more close friends the merrier.
I've recently come to know myself more and more, I'm 28 now and I took a long time to come out at 26 as gay due to being Aspergers.
The issue came from being an extroverted type that has a condition that shackles my main outlet of energy.
Imagine as an INFJ, you need to go and be alone really badly and forever being stuck in a crowd forced to keep talking for the reast of your life. That is what's it like to be an ENFP with aspergers, but the opposite way around for me.
I have an impulse to go and meet people and make friends but most of the time it's like I'm speaking Spanish to Japanese only speakers.
Luckily this has inadvertently helped me find more friends that I'm going to lean more towards having as friends to know anyways as an ENFP. INFJ's and INTJ's I'm very lucky to know 2 of each in my best friends circle.
My only problem lies in that I'm finding it quite hard getting on with other types in a romantic relationship setting.
Do any gay INFJ's have any advice in this?
I feel like most often INFJ's don't use dating websites maybe, and I probably wont meet an INFJ at a club where most INFJ gay guys don't have much acceptance there for some reason by other gay guys.
I'm a thoughtful guy, I care deeply about those around me and I'm adventurous, friendly and fun with those that take the time to get to know me.
Heck if there's an INFJ guy on here who would be open to us getting to know each other and see what happens.
Friends first with no expectations, no pressure, hey more close friends the merrier.
