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  • hai! welcome to the ENTP Hive group! it's growing every day now, good to have you as part of it; don't spread the word. stay safe, stay hidden. abrupt eruption planned; details as they come. stay tuned. EOF
    "Hey guys" "Good morning" Goodnight goodnight goodnight" and whistles "You are my Sunshine". Lots of other mumbles and peeps too but never sure what he's trying to say with those o_O
    Is it painful for us to have the sarcastic bubble? No. It's there for protection. Is it painful knowing we can't trust people? Yes. Too many times, when I've trusted people, they have let me fall. This is pretty common, but because of our idealism, we get pretty hurt over it. We can't understand how people and the world can exist the way they do. It's the inner Ni-Se conflict, not being able to separate one from the other. Eventually, they have to reconcile with the way things actually are, and learn to be less idealistic. I think the sign of an INFJ who made it through that process OK is that he/she is working to implement his/her vision and make the world a better place, one step at a time. And that they feel it is enough to what little they can. This can take decades, though.

    Maybe INFJ "pride" to an extent. Some of us get shunned from the time we are kids, so I guess there is a sense of pride and belonging when you find that there are other people like you. It's more about comfort than feeling better than everyone, though the latter is obviously not exempt. Some people think that because we are rare, it makes us better somehow. That's all subjective. Use this information well!
    You are very, very lucky to be dating one. Take care of her. INFJ girls... if I'm sensitive, I do wonder what they are.

    Yeah, I have this thing about forgiving people... I do the *doorslam* a lot. Shut people out of my life with no warning, or at least no blatant warning. I tend never to look back after that. I understand it's really cold, but they usually can't understand what they are doing to me. yyyepppp :m2:
    Shut. The fuck. Up.

    EDIT: jk jk. I see what you mean, though you should be wary of putting us on a pedestal. I don't know if you've read about our alleged powers to utterly destroy a person, but it probably happens more often than you think. We're not 100% benevolent; we just tend to feel really badly about the evil things we do. That said, yes I've felt REALLY misunderstood and unable to relate for most of my life. It wasn't until I found this place, and other NFs, that I really feel I have a niche. I'm a much more healthy person as a result.

    I want you to be a womanz!!! Where do ENTPs hang out? Where can I find them?
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