I had a 1-year-relationship with an ESFP recently end. She is intelligent, fun, athletic, gorgeous, amazing at being in the moment with you, attentive, nurturing, open-communicator, adventurous. We click in SO MANY WAYS. But I live in Ni-world and I kept needing her to spend more time in that world than I think she is able to/desires to. But she is so flippin' fantastic. If I didn't need someone to share my Ni-head-space the way I do, I think I would have married her.</3
One of my other favorite people (neutral friendship) is also an ESFP. We adventure together.
One of my favorite co-workers is an ENFJ.
My favorite person alive is my INFJ brother.
And if I end up truly needing an Ni-dom, that leaves me with INTJs and INFJs. Preferably on the nurturing and attentive side (they don't need to GUSH nurturing towards all people, just be particularly nurturing and attentive towards myself and any babies we have--as I will be towards them and our future babies)... So probably INFJ. Idk. \o/