I hate extroverts
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I see you're still not over this . .>.< Or are you? 3,5 months later..Until you meet that ENTP suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder, then your views on your most hated type will change instantly
I also have strong feelings of disgust and annoyance towards extroverts (better phrase to hate?). They seem to all live in this major fantasy world. They might be good people (or at least appear to be), but they can be so lighthearted I worry that they will float into the sky (sweet mary jane?) and they can change as quickly as a chameleon..
The thing is though, that extroverts drain energy from introverts, that's just how sociology and mbti work. They ask for advice and knowledge from introverts and sometimes even give the puppy dog look, ha ha ha. For example, an isfp (the artist) who is very social and thoroughly enjoys the company of others could stand all day and paint beautiful paintings in their home. They can be really really likeable people..
Yeah introverts are the only moral choice! Even Rick Santorum agrees!
The simplicity of the oak tree - colourful and strong. The definition of contentment - quiet and real. A burst of greatness.
A beautiful epiphany to those who are willing
I usually enjoy conversations with extroverts when its just the two of us. On the flip side, if there's more than one extrovert in a group with me then I find it almost impossible to get a word in. This probably has a lot to do with the way I am personally though; I tend to think quite a bit about something before I speak, and that tends to slow the conversation down. When I do try to say something in a group, the conversation has already turned to another subject.
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There's a lot of extroverts that I love being around, and a handful of them seem drawn to me too... I think it has a lot to do with the attraction of opposites.
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There's a lot of extroverts that I love being around, and a handful of them seem drawn to me too... I think it has a lot to do with the attraction of opposites.
Without extroverts I would have no one to 'people watch'. Introverts are too quiet and tucked inside to 'people watch'. Now I don't like them getting in my space though. Extroverts don't seem to understand personal space all that well. But they are fun to watch. It's like being in an african safari. I'm always on the look out for natives who might cannibalize me. :|
An extrovert wrote a 'I hate introverts' thread. I believe this was their FIRST mistake!
I'm not sure if I'm an I or E (as is obvious in my blog,) but I do tend to be annoyed by people who are very extroverted and think everyone cares about everything they have to say. I am only that way around people I am very comfortable around, and usually only on topics they brought up (with possibly a tangent or two.) I do not like to be the center of attention, though it often happens. I'm probably not in the best frame of mind to be writing this post, but I do hope that if I am more "E" that I don't annoy people here any more than anyone else annoys others. I don't like causing a scene...it makes me sad and repressed.
You know, some XXXXs, they really piss me off. Anybody else identify with that?
Lol.
Yeah... And those... Dang birds of prey. They really piss me off with their ohhhhhh sooooo extravagant flying skills.
I usually enjoy conversations with extroverts when its just the two of us. On the flip side, if there's more than one extrovert in a group with me then I find it almost impossible to get a word in. This probably has a lot to do with the way I am personally though; I tend to think quite a bit about something before I speak, and that tends to slow the conversation down. When I do try to say something in a group, the conversation has already turned to another subject.
Edited to add:
There's a lot of extroverts that I love being around, and a handful of them seem drawn to me too... I think it has a lot to do with the attraction of opposites.
there used to be a time when i could log whole conversations potential parts and simply hop in between, haggling with the topics whenever i got something new to say to some part.
but i guess these days i use this logging more to be aware if ive left another persons thoughts unheard due to speaking quickly, and they usually do remember then what was left off.
its a battle of haggling between the log and knowing which parts of what i want to say i would forget if i didnt log. (thus must be said instantly.)
i consider myself an ambivert, as im neither intro nor extro.
although i do find both extremes frustrating.
with deep intros, i might have alot of questions but they'll think a few MINUTES over every single one of them <.<
with high extros i might get frustrated for the contentlessness, which usually drops me straight out of conversation as any desire to keep it flowing fades.
i used to be unable to speak vocally, but learned at age of 14 to 15.
thus i consider i mightve been extro but disability made me learn the intro ways.
or maybe ive just been intro who learned the extro ways, eh?
the reason why couldnt speak, is for my hate of the dominating language here.
although, now ive learned to speak it too, and find myself frustrated with others ability to make interesting conversations without my lead <.<
ive found conversations to be an art to master as any other skill which is useful through whole life.
id say its easier for intro to learn extro ways than the other way, as extros poses this inner impatience.
thus being said, you could make conversing skill an active area of development for yourself like i did to master it. (its quite enjoyable skill, so im not surprised why extros enjoy it so much.)
as it includes many aspects: your spontaneoity, awareness of others pace, how to use their pace into making the conversation multi paced and awareness of others strengths to bring them into the conversation + million other things.
EHH.. your not speaking of ME!?? =O..
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Goddamn E's.
Seems a lot of E's have two sets of behaviour. 1 on 1 or a group of 3? Perfectly reasonable, capable of proper conversation and connection. Acting like individuals.
4 people in a group flicks the switch, with an audience of 3 their mind just warps. Attention seeking, being assholes, no meaning to the conversations, fake laughter and behaviour, it's like being sober in a room full of drunks.
Seems a lot of E's have two sets of behaviour. 1 on 1 or a group of 3? Perfectly reasonable, capable of proper conversation and connection. Acting like individuals.
4 people in a group flicks the switch, with an audience of 3 their mind just warps. Attention seeking, being assholes, no meaning to the conversations, fake laughter and behaviour, it's like being sober in a room full of drunks.
I haven't "studied" (as my dad says) everyone's posts, ha ha ha. I just hope you all know that I'm not trying to bash the extroverts, there's a small part of me that wants to support the introverts - the "I hate introverts" thread seems to be becoming quite a success...
Yeah...
Yeah...
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That's only because of the mass of introverts going "OMG how could you hate us, you're a despicable person, blah, blah" whereas here us extroverts are pretty much lol'ing over it.
Introverts need to take themselves less seriously.