Working Until You Die

I’m having issues just staying employed as an INFJ. Not sure if it’s just me or everyone along with coworkers believing I’m a Jenner transgender type person just because I promote peace, love, and understanding from everyone rather than hate, intolerance, and bashing of either side. They unfairly label you as a certain way even when none of it has to be true and you just argue for the people who are given a hard time which somehow makes you one of them since you can easily put yourself in any of their shoes since through misunderstanding of our personality type causes us to be anything any other personality type deems us to be. What is so hard about respecting others different from you that makes most individuals so dang uncomfortable, I just don’t get it. I’m not dangerous, I don’t go to them and threaten them or do anything severe to try to change anyone’s mind, I just simply exist and apparently that is bad enough to prevent me from being hired or prevents me from staying. It’s a never ending battle for me anywhere I go. Frustrating. I’m also forever given unrealistic performance requirements and I’m now at the point of being mentally exhausted from trying so hard constantly just hoping upon hope to drag to the retirement finish line. I’m so desperate I started legitimately thinking of getting a disability diagnoses by a doctor to try to apply for disability payments since I honestly have no idea what to do anymore.