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Which Personality Type is Your Love Match?

Too late! :openmouth:
Queue the romantic music....
@Pin has a match!
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Your Match is an INFJ
Becoming romantically involved with an INFJ means being wrapped in a protective cocoon of love. INFJs lead with their hearts and never want their partners to feel neglected or unappreciated, and they will seldom let a day pass without expressing their devotion and affection. They are perfectionists who want to build fantastic meaningful relationships, and they never stop trying to be more caring, attentive and involved in their companions’ lives. INFJs can be a bit intense when discussing relationship issues, but that comes from their fierce determination to create a loving union that will prosper for a lifetime.


Oh dear.
Welp.
 
Your Match is an INTJ
For INTJs, life is all about personal growth and self-development, and when they can do it within the bounds of a committed relationship, they find that emotionally rewarding. But their vision extends beyond themselves; they are just as interested in promoting the growth and development of their love commitments and gain great enjoyment from helping their mates reach their full potential as human beings. INTJs are charitable and attentive with their partners, supporting them faithfully no matter what they choose to do with their lives. INTJs are self-confident enough to accept constructive criticism and will adjust their behavior and attitudes to align more completely with the needs of their partners, knowing that doing so will deepen the bonds of love.

INTJs aren’t the type to shower their companions with a lot of flowery compliments, preferring to let their actions and attitudes reveal their true feelings. They don’t always read the thoughts and feelings of their partners accurately but are very open to listening when their mates have something important to say. INTJs do spend a lot of time lost in their own thoughts, but they like to use their best ideas and inspirations to improve the quality of their relationships. Even though they aren’t outgoing, INTJs are compassionate and people-centered, and they love to fall in love when the opportunity presents itself.

The Downsides
With their focus on self- and relationship-improvement, INTJs sometimes try to fix things that aren’t really broken, confusing and alarming partners who thought everything was okay. The hearts of INTJs are always in the right place, but their good intentions can sometimes cause them to be a little overzealous. And while they are happy to accept responsibility for making their relationships better, they are reluctant to take the blame when things go wrong, which can be especially exasperating to companions who didn’t see the need for tinkering in the first place.

I'm not surprised in the least. I find their minds to be the most alluring thing about them. I need a lot of alone time, and I'd respect their need as well; joining them when and where they came up for air with me. I don't mind the tinkering or trying to refine the relationship as the 'downsides' suggest. I think this is healthy, and I'd dissolve any fears by demonstrating that they were chosen every day. Unfortunately, one meets so few of them in real life, and until recently, I was sure they were a tantalizing fiction of the internet. I'm glad to be proven wrong, and I genuinely don't mind being patient. I have the stamina to hold out for what I desire, regardless of time or distance. In this, I am certain, regardless of what sorts of things I have to contend with in the present.

Also, they are fucking adorable. What's not to love?


Edited to add: I think it's funny that everyone is getting INFJ. I already have to put up with myself, I don't need two of me to deal with. hahaha. ^.^' Though, I find other INFJs (especially those with a developed Ti) to be incredibly endearing.
 
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Well I'll be fucked, an extraverted me. How am I not surprised, someone who can say what I feel without having to say it myself. Quite convenient.

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