I do believe that INFJs are formed out of a similar relationship to the world.
However, these questions aren't those similarities at all.
I would say these might be better to determine the similarities:
1. Did someone in your childhood require that you learn to read them and the situation without them giving you explicit instructions, such that body languages became the way to tell if you were doing something right or wrong, or to find out whether it was a good time to bring up topics?
2. Were you left to form your morality and ethics for yourself based on things others said and did around you?
3. Did you have a way to act that calmed people or got people not to fight?
However, these questions aren't those similarities at all.
I would say these might be better to determine the similarities:
1. Did someone in your childhood require that you learn to read them and the situation without them giving you explicit instructions, such that body languages became the way to tell if you were doing something right or wrong, or to find out whether it was a good time to bring up topics?
2. Were you left to form your morality and ethics for yourself based on things others said and did around you?
3. Did you have a way to act that calmed people or got people not to fight?
