Hi, to make a long story short: I (enfp male) met this amazing INFJ woman line a couple of months ago. She recently had a breakup with her boyfriend and started talking to me more intensly. We immediatly had a connection with each other that i couldnt explain.
We talked multiple hours everyday and seem to share a lot of values together. One thing that botherd me tho is that she is very obsessed with her ex still and probably will be for a long time, she absolutley loves him and he broke up with her and ignored her on all socialmedia plattforms.
Ok here is the thing, i said something that probably offended her. We ENFPs are moody in nature and i had a very bad day, i wanted to tell her about my problems and she reacted kinda negativly to it. So i called her an asshole and said "maybe we shouldnt talk to each other for the next couple of days".
I didnt even mean what i said, i just had a very bad day. Then she answerd with "alright, you call me names so i am done, i dont want to get close to anybody online rn anyway" then she blocked me. All this happend on discord btw. its 3 days ago and she still has me on block.
Do you guys think she wil never unblock me ever? I guess this is one of the famous infj doorslammes that are supposed to last forever. Now i feel super sad and angry at myself that i scared this wonderfull woman away.
I only had such a great connection with a woman 1 time before this and it ended up as a wonderfull relationship. Now i am afraid i ruined this great chance to have something like this again.
Whats you guys opinion on this?
We talked multiple hours everyday and seem to share a lot of values together. One thing that botherd me tho is that she is very obsessed with her ex still and probably will be for a long time, she absolutley loves him and he broke up with her and ignored her on all socialmedia plattforms.
Ok here is the thing, i said something that probably offended her. We ENFPs are moody in nature and i had a very bad day, i wanted to tell her about my problems and she reacted kinda negativly to it. So i called her an asshole and said "maybe we shouldnt talk to each other for the next couple of days".
I didnt even mean what i said, i just had a very bad day. Then she answerd with "alright, you call me names so i am done, i dont want to get close to anybody online rn anyway" then she blocked me. All this happend on discord btw. its 3 days ago and she still has me on block.
Do you guys think she wil never unblock me ever? I guess this is one of the famous infj doorslammes that are supposed to last forever. Now i feel super sad and angry at myself that i scared this wonderfull woman away.
I only had such a great connection with a woman 1 time before this and it ended up as a wonderfull relationship. Now i am afraid i ruined this great chance to have something like this again.
Whats you guys opinion on this?