Hi my fellow INFJs!
I would like to know how you prevent loosing yourself in a relationship?
INFJs want to create harmony and we often sacrifice ourselves in relationships to meet the expectations and preferences of our partners. I have noticed that this is my way to show appreciation and intimacy but the truth is that ultimately it leads to a sense of not being enough when I adapt too much.
For me it feels that I have not met the right one who understands me but it could also be possible that I am not able to be a partner..
Is there other INFJs who have gone through the same thing over and over again until you found the right one who appreciates you as you are and not as they wish you to be?
I would like to know how you prevent loosing yourself in a relationship?
INFJs want to create harmony and we often sacrifice ourselves in relationships to meet the expectations and preferences of our partners. I have noticed that this is my way to show appreciation and intimacy but the truth is that ultimately it leads to a sense of not being enough when I adapt too much.
For me it feels that I have not met the right one who understands me but it could also be possible that I am not able to be a partner..
Is there other INFJs who have gone through the same thing over and over again until you found the right one who appreciates you as you are and not as they wish you to be?