Glad to know those phases have passed me by. That sure is a virtue of getting old. 
12 Signs Of An Unhealthy, Underdeveloped INFJ
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you're underdeveloped if you don't think i'm funny, or don't like me.
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I've been on the outside of anything you could call normal society for a long time so a lot of this is new to me. Now that I'm trying to integrate I find myself running into a lot of this. It'd be nice if there was a pamphlet or like a couple of dudes on bicycles spreading the word. I could plainly see some things that caused me issues from childhood, but that there's a personality type that that describes me so well, for good and bad, would have been kinda helpful.
I was forged in fire though. Insight galore. Now I've got a list of stuff that helps make sense of things that always seemed odd to me. No big deal. I'm not afraid of change, it's just always been my perspective vs. the world.
Cool beans.
I was forged in fire though. Insight galore. Now I've got a list of stuff that helps make sense of things that always seemed odd to me. No big deal. I'm not afraid of change, it's just always been my perspective vs. the world.
Cool beans.
I think I went through a phase like that in the late 2000s.
I didn't really identify with the other signs, which I guess is good news.
So what do you do if you can identify with some of these signs but you're not an INFJ?
So what do you do if you can identify with some of these signs but you're not an INFJ?
I don't think these are only the signs of an unhealthy INFJ, to be honest. It seems like a bit of a mix.
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Dance it off?So what do you do if you can identify with some of these signs but you're not an INFJ?
I agree with @Ren that others can also have these behaviors, or similar ones.
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So what do you do if you can identify with some of these signs but you're not an INFJ?
Sounds like deNile ain't (or is not, for the perfect obsessives) just a place in Egypt anymore...?
Sense, you do not make.
Explain, you must.
Them INFJ eyes tho
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I could never do such a thing to myself. Err... I mean Dolores.
WRONG
Real signs
1. Doesn't have a job - Mbti was created for women to get damned jobs.
2. People that have more power than them, don't like them - do you want help? I will get my icepick, you gonna feel better, we call it lobotomy.
Real signs
1. Doesn't have a job - Mbti was created for women to get damned jobs.
2. People that have more power than them, don't like them - do you want help? I will get my icepick, you gonna feel better, we call it lobotomy.
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@Asa, I think your OP is an excellent description of people-pleasing behavior. I don't believe it is related to MBTI type.
Of course I relate to most of what you wrote.
Of course I relate to most of what you wrote.
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@Lurk – I didn't write it. I just reposted from 'Introvert Dear' because I thought it would be helpful.
No, the trouble started when women started working. Come on, it's not as if their wages are good for anything but childcare, fancy hairdos, and junk trinkets.
If they trust the people in power, I deduct points.