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  • I'm an INFJ and I'm struggling with my long distance relationship with a male ESFP. He's been my best friend for seven years. I had a crush on him for the first two years of our friendship, but then my confidence dwindled and I moved on. Ever since I had moved on, he seemed to make efforts to bring our friendship back. Two years ago, he moved across the ocean. When I finally got out of the relationship that had helped me move on from my crush, I began to think about my crush again when I had received a phone call on Valentine's Day of 2012. Summer of 2012, he came to visit and revealed his love for me. Yeah-yeah, it all seems very romantic. I knew it would be extremely difficult once he had left to go back home, but the fact that he seemed to not really care or make any efforts in making contact made me doubt him. I couldn't take it anymore, I got mad and broke up with him September of 2012. December came around and I couldn't help it, even though I had stopped believing in him and in love all together, I couldn't stop thinking of him, caring about him. In January 2013 I told him I loved him over the phone, but it wasn't as random as I'm making it sound. I unintentionally flirted with him for a while. Now it's March and I just can't handle it. For the past few weeks I've felt miserable, constantly waiting to hear from him again. I'm so doubtful. I question his love constantly...I've given so much effort and received none in return. But, then when I blow up about it, he shows sadness and tells me sincerely he loves me... I'm so confused. And now I've recently discovered our science-based personalities and heard a lot of bad feedback about INFJ's and ESFP's in relationships... HELP? sorry, I know its a lot...
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