just from the title, y'all probably know what i'm getting at Helpful Sponsor Ads! ok, so coke and myselfhave been discussing temperament types and the obstacles that we (probably have or will) face someday like, i try to say that it is all good and i really don't see any problems, even when things look their worst. maybe its just my idealistic ideas and hopes and dreams of the perfect relationship that i perceive us in. but there is the other side (my better half), that says everything is not as rosy as it appears. and so she does some research and sends me what looks like a doomsday letter: and i have also looked into it, and i have found hope... but in everyone that i have found, there is this section i have come to call 'The Bad News Section" is there any way around this? can we turn these weaknesses into strengths? or is it something that is just inherent in us all?