I've noticed there are a lot of 6w5 enneagram posters here, myself included.
Is a 6w5 INFJ common?
Have you been able to trust anyone/anything?
Is a 6w5 INFJ common?
Have you been able to trust anyone/anything?
I have faith that people, at some point, regardless of the reasons and their intentions, will disappoint you.Have you been able to trust anyone/anything?
I've noticed there are a lot of 6w5 enneagram posters here, myself included.
Is a 6w5 INFJ common?
Have you been able to trust anyone/anything?
Pretty much any time I expose myself or make myself vulnerable, I experience an immediate physical reaction. It varies depending on the scenario/circumstances, but I can get lightheaded, tense, shaky, my breathing and heart rate can change, sometimes I just freeze, and sometimes I have to flee, when I can't take the feeling of vulnerability anymore... and that's only when I'm able to open up and make myself vulnerable altogether, which is a feat unto itself.
CindyLou said:No, it's not understanding me or if someone is harmless or not. I don't think. What do you consider harmless?
I sometimes trust initially, but then over time I feel like they're not...with me. Once that split happens (and I don't mean psychological splitting) it's hard to stay close to them because I don't know if they'll betray me or not. They're on the outside. What do they want with me?
People who aren't consistent cause me to doubt them. I get weird feelings about things. I want to know whats hiding underneath the surface. I want to know what dynamics are at play that I don't know about.
I don't want to get hurt.