Thank you for the like. Don't know what to suggest, but I just started looking for friends. Go to a pool hall. Fell for a girl half my age, so thought it would not work out. We talked a lot as friends, but never went out. We look at things from all angles. The one girl I did not ever wish to hurt! I never even thought she could have a young crush on this much older man, but she did. What a serious, old infj.