Recent content by Sloshy Joshy

I really don't think men and women can be strictly friends. One or the other always has more of an interest than the other. With that said, I usually make friends with girls a lot easier than guys.

Even though I think there have been a lot of answers given that I think apply to myself, I'm still going to throw my hat into this. 1) Where are you likely to be found outside of the Internet? I rarely go to clubs or bars. Honestly, being around a lot of people in that 'scene' makes me feel...

Did he initially have an interest for you and weren't interested? How did it play out? I'm curious

We all have flaws. I think only a fool wouldn't want to change and improve upon their flaws.

This is a bad thing? What if that is your purpose and you achieve it?

black/filipina? nothing wrong with that.... :D

I think everyone should want to change themselves somehow at some point in life. I don't mean fundamentally, as I've grown to love a lot of things about myself over the years, but as for my general shyness.... I'm continuously trying to get myself to be more open around people. Seems to be...

Just so we're clear, I did make a move awhile back ago. We had a long talk about it, but here we are, years later, in the same position. Whoever said open up to her, I did that. She probably knows me better than most people I know. I'm not even mad about it anymore. I don't worry about women...

I love being nice to everyone (if they deserve it) and making people feel good, but it ALWAYS works against you as a guy. I've been told by far too many girls they only want to be my friend. I suspect there isn't much worse. Right now there's a girl I can't get out of my head and we're...

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Thanks for the welcome :)

A girl I'm totally gone off on once told me, "just because we get along so well, have so many of the same interests, and are a lot of like, doesn't mean we should be together." i'm still frustrated on that one

This happens to me all the time and usually would get me into hot water as I would blurt out what I noticed as it entered my mind. Now that I'm older I've gotten used to keeping it to myself and using it to my advantage. No one appreciates it so I've decided to use it for my gain.