Recent content by MoniqueS

First, would you ever have a long distance relationship? Secondly, how would you make it work? It seems like a very difficult situation. Because you almost have to jump into a serious relationship, because you have to literally fly or drive a significant distance just to even see the other...

I guess just the issues alone. Hypothetically ,she might have struggled with an eating disorder in the past but doesn't have one when she is dating you. But she still has body-image issues. I ask because in my situation, I have struggled with binge eating, and it isn't as out of control as it...

Guys, how do you feel about dating girls with body-image issues? Is it a deal-breaker for you, or how do you handle it?

Humility is the defining characteristic of an unpretentious and modest person, someone who does not think that he or she is better or more important than others. And you? When you do the right thing, you're doing it for all the right reasons. All 7 virtues are a part of you, but your...

You feel deeply and freely. You let yourself explore all your emotions, even the scary ones. You have strong emotions. You listen to your heart... it has rarely led you astray. You're most attracted to someone who will take care of you and make you feel safe. You want a reliable partner. You...

The Nurturer In love, you are quietly intense, devoted, and tend too hold on too long. For you, sex is a way to get closer - and a way to take care of your partner. Overall, you are altruistic and eager to please your sweetie. However, you tend to also be non-confrontational and secretly...

Thank you for the hair comment! My hair is actually my natural color now though, which is a light brown. But posting that picture kind of makes me miss the dark hair.

I will confess I tend to be attracted more to taller guys. I'm 5'6 myself. But I wouldn't disregard someone just because of their height. I've been involved with guys who are my height if not a little taller. But if it just comes down to preference, I do prefer taller.

Do you think monogamy is natural? And do you think its sustainable?

I agree with you completely. And a big reason why I took a step back from even the possibility of dating is because I knew I needed to improve my self-esteem and figure out what I really want in a relationship. I wholeheartedly believe that you have to make yourself happy, and never rely on any...

I have a social anxiety disorder and struggle with depression.

you have social anxiety

I'm an introvert and I don't think negatively of extroverts nor would I make a list of all the negative things about them. I guess this is coming from a personal experience you are having, but I don't think its really fair to generalize in such a negative way. Cause I never said I was any of...

I HATE small talk. But I also have social anxiety problems. I go to great lengths to avoid making small talk so I pretend not to see people/go the opposite direction if I see someone I know.

I wouldn't settle. But I'm not sure if I really believe in the "one" either. But for me personally, I would rather be single then being in any relationship that wasn't extremely fulfilling for me. I'm also a person who is much more comfortable being single than in a relationship though.