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    You Know You're An INFJ When....

    EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS IS MY LIFE Also: You really want to help everyone who is sad and hurting, but because you're an empath, it tends to wear you down
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    any INFJs with INFP siblings?

    My sister's ISFP/INFP 50/50 split. She's like my best friend. I think it's a good sibling relationship. She's more artsy and go with the flow, whereas I'm the writer and super perfectionistic. So pretty stereotypical really. She keeps me in check though because her Fi balances out my Fe, which...
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    Transcendentalism

    How do you guys feel about transcendentalism. I've been rereading a lot of Emerson and Thoreau for class. Not everything they argue is always practical, but I feel like transcendentalist kind of have the right idea about a lot of things, and I wondered if having an INFJ personality type...
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    Romantic Attraction Turn Offs

    I was thinking about the things that turn me off in regards to guys who are interested in me, and the things that turn me off about guys that I had thought I might have interest in. And I realized that they were really backwards from the norm. Do any of you that find that to be true? Like...
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    The INFJ ambiguity

    I totally get what you were saying about having a contradicting personality. I feel as if I'm the most practical person when it comes to applying myself in day to day situations, but at the same time I'm the biggest dreamer I know, my mind is always somewhere else, off following my vivid...
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    What type of men do infj girls like

    I like introverts, generally. And guys who understand me because nothing is more comforting, I think.
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    What Do People Envy About You?

    People Envy Your Compassion You have a kind heart and an unusual empathy for all living creatures. You tend to absorb others' happiness and pain. People envy your compassion, and more importantly, the connections it helps you build. And compassionate as you are, you feel for them...
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    [INFJ] Dating an ST

    I could never do it, but I think it's different for everyone. One of my friends is ISTJ and he's super observant. He's super logical and he watches me like I'm a science experiment, adding up my actions and physical appearance to reach conclusions about me. He's so detailed oriented it's scary...
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    How I Met Your Mother characters

    Ted- INFJ or ISFJ Marshall- ENFJ or ENFP Lily- ENFP or INFP Barney- ENTJ Robin-ISTP
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    Which MBTI type are you drawn to?

    Wow. This is so accurate. Actualized type: INFJ (who you are) Introverted (I) 56.1% Extroverted (E) 43.9% Intuitive (N) 68.42% Sensing (S) 31.58% Feeling (F) 79.41% Thinking (T) 20.59% Judging (J) 51.52% Perceiving (P) 48.48% INFJ - "Author". Strong drive and enjoyment to help...
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    [INFJ] INFJ + INFJ and the importance of being understood

    Thanks guys. You guys are definitely right, I seems similar to kind of what I've been reflecting on. I guess its good that I have the summer away so that I can kind of separate my heart from my head a little more.
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    Clues that give you a hint that an INFJ is angry or uncomfortable...

    For me, if I'm uncomfortable I won't talk or make eye contact. If I'm upset you can always tell from my face cause I look very downcast and my eyes give me away. Though I agree with the above. I never like telling someone if I'm upset unless I know they are truly concerned or I know them very...
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    Unhealthy for INFJs to create art?

    That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. I write (which I sort of consider art) and I write differently than most people. I start with the main idea or the message/theme and and extended metaphor and the rest writes itself from there. I think everyone approaches art differently and...
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    [INFJ] INFJ + INFJ and the importance of being understood

    Hey guys. I just took some MBTI tests last week which told me I was INFJ, and it describes me so well. I want to ask for your opinion on something. As an INFJ it's hard for me to really fall for guys (not like having a crush, like really falling for them) because its hard to find a connection...