Recent content by in_wonderment

that's the beauty of intuition though. we can usually tell if it's just a bad action, or if it's a bad person. typically right upon meeting them. bad action but ok person, person gets more time in a gray zone to figure out who they are and what they stand for. bad person, and i usually don't...

i shut people out. and usually my mood is dark enough that people know to just leave me alone. i make lots of generalizations like 'you know how there are days you can just deal with everything and it doesn't bother you? and then there are days where every issue is really difficult to overcome...

im an infj, but i think i come across as being much colder than i am. i emote my feelings, but keep people at a distance, as need be. more of an sfj at work, either esfj, or isfj. live in the moment sort of thing. if one can ever change type...

...basically what satya said. my opinion is the same, just stated in a different way. :)

im not indecisive. i either like people or i don't. problem being, i don't like that many people. and it's horrible because i can find someone attractive and wonderful but still not feel a spark with them. i dont have high standards, just idealistic, in that i want love. and gosh darn...

not very, when it comes to travel and things like that. my 'J' is too high to do things in a random fashion. however, let's say we're going out for a night on the town. im very flexible with things like that. plan the time for dinner, then, im really quite game for anything. ive also...

i don't have strange eating habits. however, i am extremely stubborn. but i think my accurate intuition makes me that way. ie, my gut instinct is usually right, so why should i ever ignore it?

1) People will make time for you if you're a priority to them. I STRONGLY believe this. 'Busy' is just code for I have more important things to do. Now you can truly be busy, but you must make an honest effort to be available in the future. 2)'Lets hang out sometime' is something people say...

evidence via antedote: both of my parents have major depression. my dad also has anxiety. i have anxiety, definitely. also, i occasionally have fits of depression (usually with causes... and fester in the winter) my sister has depression, no anxiety. no other real mental issues...

I tend to think you're right. It's kind of the same as typing someone letter by letter. But when you look back at the big picture, it is all wrong. You do either look inward or outward. You either get your energy from being with people, or you don't. I understand it's kind of difficult, and...

the one enfj i know, is one of the most emotionally needy human beings ever. she seems similar to me, except for the emotion is all on the outside. and she needs constant, constant engagement and emotional feedback. i appear colder than her, i also need way less attention and interaction...

I think zen is saying what I was attempting to say. Both of us aren't saying it very clearly though... haha.

i often write in metaphors. when i talk it is more loose, like tying antedote or the feeling of a story, to the feeling of another story. so for example, if someone tells a story about getting a speeding ticket, i might continue the conversation with 'so it was kind of like the first time...

I'm introverted. But you would be very very hardpressed to figure that out when first meeting me. I engage strangers in conversation. I'm kind of loud. I am overly nice, saying Hi to everyone. And I enjoy talking and interacting with people alot on the job. That said, I wear out very...

im brutally honest too. that's the j i think. the f tempers it kind of... as in, i might try to sugarcoat it for you. i did however, tell a girl in 7th grade i hated her. everyone laughed and thought i was being sarcastic... no, i was just being honest.