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Recent content by IdleWanderer

  1. IdleWanderer

    Is this worth pursuing?

    If things haven't changed drastically by then, and I sense she might be up for it, I will probably do just that. I wasn't really alluding to the whole age gap or intern/leader situation (if that is what you think) when asking other INFJs to chip in on similarities. It was more the general...
  2. IdleWanderer

    Is this worth pursuing?

    Thanks a lot for replying to my lengthy post (story). Both of you have some valid points and thoughts to consider. I really appreciated your reply Asa, so I'd like to comment on some of your points. First of all, the situation is not really a love vs career situation. I'm certain I wouldn't...
  3. IdleWanderer

    Is this worth pursuing?

    I just wanted to add a bit more of a personal and emotional context to this: I've never met a girl who just gets me like she does. It's as if she just knows who I am and how I function. Her comments are always spot on and makes me feel seen and valued as few others have managed. This makes it...
  4. IdleWanderer

    Is this worth pursuing?

    Hi all! Need to get some like-minded people's opinion on this. Might be a lengthy one (sorry). Because of privacy issues I can't go into exact specifics, but I (an INFJ) have a situation going on with a girl (another INFJ). We met last year through work (she'd already been there for a year but...